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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (16 children)

hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

the list as it stands:

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​ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

I have so much respect for people who are out because that is so scary to me. I love and admire people who's presentation is audacious and challenges your views. I love trans people who do not "pass" and are happy about it, because they have so much confidence in their identity. I feel so afraid to be visibly queer, visibly different. I've never come out about my gender irl, and very few people know about my sexuality.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 months ago (5 children)

There are people who as soon as their egg cracks they are out and proud and idk how they do it

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

At some point i just couldn't bear boymoding any longer, it was a fucking nightmare. I honestly don't get how people who live in a just averagely transphobic area can stay closeted once they've cracked for real. Like, on an abstract level, i get it, i get when people want to at least get rid of the 5 o' clock shadown first n stuff, avoiding the hypervisibility and all that, i'm also absolutely not judging anybody, but i honestly do not understand on an emotional level how so many transfems can stand letting literally everybody misgender them every single day. At some point that made me just snap, i had to come out because i was tired of screaming internally.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago

Felt exactly the same when my egg cracked. Took me almost a year to finally tell someone else, and even then I only did it because I was forced to.

But what I’ve learned over the years of being stuck in the closet and being gatekept forever was that it doesn’t matter how scared you are. What matters is how strong your desire to be yourself is.

I’m still very self-conscious and it’s still scary to go outside and make myself vulnerable. But I nonetheless do it because I just cannot bear to hide my existence any longer. I don’t want to go back to feeling suffocated by living a lie.

And I guess this strong desire just kind of overrides my anxiety and pushes me forward. So even though a lot of people have told me that I’m brave for being so open about myself, in reality I’m still as scared as you are. It’s just that I have no other choice.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 2 months ago (2 children)

My pronouns are not an accidental duplication, I'd like a double serve of she-s and her-s to make up for lost time please.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 2 months ago (7 children)

Remember when the pope said "gender ideology is the ugliest danger of our time"?

Sure is cool to see so much of this site gushing over this guy

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 months ago

I was literally just thinking this, really really not cool to see that shit here

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I'm now a post-op trans girl.

spoilerThe op was a colonoscopy

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Contacted a therapist today. Please be proud of me doggirl-tears

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I read a lot of hexbears yearning posts and I feel for you all, for sure, I get it's lonely. I've been single for 2 years and I just don't feel like it's a bad fate to be single. I had my great love story and it ended how it did, I feel like I'm set and good for life. I remember the feeling though: wishing I had someone close, who I could trust, who loved me, who was there when I was sad or down, feeling so so alone and desperate. I just personally haven't felt it in a loooong time

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

The yearning goes hard. I really want that closeness, and struggle so much with it. How did you make peace with not having that?

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

No relationship is better than bad relationship

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (6 children)

my other yuriposting forum is gone so im going to post here

(i'm really only posting this because i wanted to know if i can make cleaner "scanlations" than whichever monkey with a typewriter did the "original" of this one)

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (5 children)

I'm so tired of the doubt... Most of the time it comes by way of other people who are trying in earnest to make sure I'm okay, like my supervisor/mentor today. And it wasn't like denying my identity or anything, just concern that I may be putting femininity on a pedestal and straying a little too far towards self-annihilation instead of self-discovery.

When I talk with people like that who are less affirming the doubt increases and I feel worse. I want it to be true, I want to truly want to be a girl, but what that's just because I'd like an easy way to escape what I currently am?

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

The UK needs to be broken up and TERFs should be hauled off to a gulag. Unironically. Give occupied Ireland back, and give the Scots and Welsh their independence. Then put England under strict military rule until the brain worms can be properly excised.

Seriously, what justification does the UK have for their backward bullshit? The US is full of (and run by) religious nuts, so that kind of thing is expected. What’s the UK’s excuse for their backwardness?

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

trans rights are moomin rights

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (3 children)

My right tit seems to be growing slightly larger than my left. Not really much of a problem, it's just I seem to be listing right slightly while I sleep.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago

Me too, but I feel like every few months the one that's growing more will switch. Like right will be bigger, then slow down, and left will catch up and then get bigger and so on.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago

I have a paper due in 1 weeks time. I keep telling myself, FINISH THE FUGGING PAPER THEN YOUR DEGREE IS PRACTICALLY DONE. YOU CAN SPEND THE REMAINING TIME CHILLING AND GIRLIFYING.

But still, the bed is so much warmer than my study desk.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

There was a bloke in a kitsuragi-dance jacket at the trans rights protest today. Nothing else to report.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 months ago (8 children)
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[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 months ago

bottom surgery postingFuck, I love having a vagina so much, ya’ll. I ain’t even the type to wear leggings much, but just being able to without anything getting in the way sounds like bliss.

Can’t wait to be able to go on my first run, but that will certainly be a ways off.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 months ago

I saw the Pope at a grocery store in Los Angeles the other day. I told him how cool it was to meet him in person, but I didn’t want to be a douche and bother him and ask him for photos or anything. He said, “Oh, like you’re doing now?” I was taken aback, and all I could say was “Huh?” but he kept cutting me off and going “huh? huh? huh?” and closing his hand shut in front of my face. I walked away and continued with my shopping, and I heard him chuckle as I walked off. When I came to pay for my stuff up front I saw him trying to walk out the doors with like fifteen Milky Ways in his hands without paying. The girl at the counter was very nice about it and professional, and was like “Sir, you need to pay for those first.” At first he kept pretending to be tired and not hear her, but eventually turned back around and brought them to the counter. When she took one of the bars and started scanning it multiple times, he stopped her and told her to scan them each individually “to prevent any electrical infetterence,” and then turned around and winked at me. I don’t even think that’s a word. After she scanned each bar and put them in a bag and started to say the price, he kept interrupting her by yawning really loudly.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Who keeps the cisgender down?

While we are beeping around?

WE DOOOOOOOOOO, WE DOOOOOOOOO

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 months ago

Playing make believe every night with my plushies, I'm the captain and their my crew but instead of a ship at sea it's a train since I rather not convince myself again I got sea sickness.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 months ago (2 children)

extremely depressedImagine a girlie so fucked up and lonely and starved of care that she has to be cognizant not to accidentally start hitting on the fucking crisis counselor on the crisis hot-line.

It's me, hi, I'm the girlie. Shit like this makes me wonder if I'm just fucked up beyond repair.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 months ago

It’s probably for the best not to do that, yeah. headpat

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago (5 children)

feeling weird about sexuality tbh

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago

I love my wife, Tails. eggman-announcement

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Incredibly cute plant, what is it? catgirl-heart

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

sedum x rubrotinctum variegatum, i'm pretty sure. also known as the jelly bean plant

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago (4 children)

i might look for some neopronouns to replace he/him... it's not quite right, i think. like the vibes of a man rnt rly what im going for. idk

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago

Going out to dinner with wife’s parents.
Didn’t have time to put on makeup; hopefully I’m not too ugly doggirl-sweat

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago (3 children)
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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago (7 children)

The News Mega has surpassed us doggirl-gloom

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

apple on the left and strawberry on the right :)

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Good News, soldiers. We are winning. catgirl-salute

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

cw si

God my brain really doesnt like me lateley. I just feel like theres no point to anything, there is only pain and downward mobility ahead. I wasnt made for this world and i want to leave now. Its days like today that are the reason i dont own a gun, but days like today make me want one so bad.

On top of that i just feel broken. I cant be truly vulnerable with anyone. Its all fake. I can never let anyone see their actions caused me pain because that will cause them pain (thanks for that non-traumatic long term trauma mom). But pretending that they dont hurt me will just end in me eating a 12ga.

Edit: im feeling a bit better now

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago (10 children)

I am obligated, as a lesbian, to click on this video every time it shows up on my feed

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago (2 children)

my tits have been looking a lot bigger recently even if i haven't really feel them grow. is quitting drinking helping with that? idk, maybe

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago (4 children)

We are beating the News Mega doggirl-thumbsup

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HappyI can go days without shaving and not see facial hair doggirl-happy

SadI can still feel it tho doggirl-cry

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago (4 children)
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[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago

I gotta buy a car. I fuckin hate going in there to that den of thieves and vipers and grifters, do the whole fucking show and dance, waste 4 hours or more on bullshit only to be given a quote that's just gonna rip me off, pretend the salesman has to beg for a better deal with a manager, only to have them come back with another bull shit offer and then just walk the fuck away from this stupid fucking bull shit without a car but at least not ripped off

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago

Men telling me I’m too emotional, overreacting, antisocial, and alienating the working class? Maybe I am a woman after all!

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