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[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago

Forgot to add that one to the already read list!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

You're very welcome and that book is a great place to start! It also opens your eyes to how urban planning isn't just some odd thing happening in an office far away, but (at least should be) locally motivated and a source - or at least hub - of many issues pertaining to issues of systemic oppression and how that hurts everyone. I know that makes sense in the abstract (we're all leftists) but it makes it very tangible. It gives a great example of how clearing of snow in Stockholm was done in a way that mainly had men in mind, which led to more people falling and hurting themselves, which meant hospitals were busier.

[–] [email protected] 50 points 4 months ago (2 children)

why be a landlord at this point?

What do they mean? Everytime a la dlord posts or talks its about how hard they work to maintain their property. Constantly fixing things and dealing with unreasonable tenants. Such upstanding citizens surely would fix mould, wether or not the law required it, right? Then there's no practical change.
The only way this could be bad, is if landlords don't actually do anything

[–] [email protected] 18 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Lmao 100gecs isn't the kid thing anymore, you're OLD and OUT OF TOUCH OUT OF TIME YOURE OUT OF YOUR HEAD WHEN IM NOT AROUND

[–] [email protected] 25 points 4 months ago

Tbh I think theres a good bunch that just go "at least he keeps his promises" lol

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I think Jackson mispronounced that line and it should have been "a point deducted". Guy seemed a little bit out of it, he was off on timing a few times.
Performing as an actor where you have to hit theatrical beats, speak clearly and audibly and follow choreography is hard. Add "having to keep in specific time so as to sync up with a song" is hard as fuck. I can't begin to imagine how it would be as an old pensioner in the middle of a stadium filled with roaring crowds.
Look at him speaking over the trumpets and then acting surprised at the trumpets. Kendrick also pops up behind him. Seems like he was off tempo there.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago

Yeah the candles are a lot of fun! Super hot though.

I can relate. Added a story in an edit.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago

"You are a child" is a great argument will.

"You are old, your body is already failing you, so why should I believe your mind is intact? Do you even remember last year, let alone 2015?" Is of course a terrible argumenf that you would only trot out if you have nothing to say

[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (7 children)

Nah no hooligan stuff, though we do fire roman candles once in a while, but that's just for the vibes. I know a few hooligans actually, but that's more from my upbringing. It's mainly the big leagues that have those, they're surprisingly chill actually. Just dudes who found out they liked to fight and decided to meet up with like-minded individuals instead of assaulting random strangers in the street.
They agree beforehand on where to fight, with how many and with what allowed and when to stop. Really seems like there's no (nonconsensual) harm in it.

Edit: related story. One time I was at a bar with some of them. A guy comes up to me, sizes me up, asks me if "I wanna go?"
I've been in fights before and I'm pretty good at talking myself out of them. Ridiculing yourself is great, if you make yourself seem pathetic then they're less likely to go for you, since it would be weak of them to do so.
But if you're asked "do you wanna go?" Then that's it. There's no answer that doesn't start a fight. And this guy just came out of the blue, really fucked with me. No buildup.
I felt so stupid. I know there's some chuds and chud-adjacents in that culture, even in good clubs. I was looking kinda queer, of course something was going to happen. Stupid.
So what do I do? Well I make sure I have at least legal cover, for if something bad happens. I loudly proclaim "no sir, I do not wish to fight you. Sorry for provoking you." Maybe I'm lucky and I'll get attention from those around me. A few half-glanxes thrown my way, but no one reacts otherwise.
Fuck.
The guy is big. Not super big, but bigger than me. And he's a fighter, I'm not. I've been in fights, but mainly to get out of them. He fights often, and well you can tell. So I'm in for it.
What does he do? He shrugs, says "alright, have a nice evening" slaps my shoulder as he says "take care" and walks over to another guy, who he sizes up and asks if he would like to go.
The other guy says "nah man, not tonight" oh okay, see you around and on he goes. Fourth guy askedsays yes, they go outside.
Later on I catch them at the bar sharing a beer lol.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

It's decent to good

 

Just remembered I had this bookmarked

 

The absolute worst place to get a cut wtf. Whenever I'm calling someone I'll be getting blood on my screen. It's going to take ages to heal.

 

Please don't give me any recommendations for bad vegan toppings, nor any recommendations for good vegans topping me to be bred.

 

Old news, but just found it.

Copenhagen tries special Paris trick to lure Trump critics

The Municipality of Copenhagen is ready with a major recruitment campaign to lure disappointed Americans to the Danish capital.

In Copenhagen, the doors are now open to Americans who no longer want to live in a country with a president named Donald Trump.

The City of Copenhagen and Copenhagen Capacity are now ready to develop a targeted effort to attract Americans who are ready for a career and a new life outside the US.

This is according to Jens-Kristian Lütken (V), Mayor for Employment and Integration, to TV 2 Kosmopol.

- “There are so many Americans who have good ideas, want to start a business and have good educations. We need them here in Copenhagen and in the metropolitan area. And many of them are tired of Donald Trump becoming president, so we want to attract them to Copenhagen,” says Jens-Kristian Lütken.

The education and skills that the mayor is looking for are particularly in tech, green transition and life science. That's why the City of Copenhagen and Copenhagen Capacity will now seek out exactly those professional groups and entice them with what the mayor believes Copenhagen has to offer.

- First of all, Copenhagen is a great place to raise a family. Far, far better than the US. We have good daycare centers and we have good schools. We also have a much more open and liberal society than what Trump is proposing,” says Jens-Kristian Lütken.

Inspiration from Paris

The mayor explains that it was during a meeting between the Employment and Integration Administration and Copenhagen Capacity that the idea came up.

- “We talked about how we could be better at recruiting talent from abroad, and then we talked about what we could do if Trump wanted to win. Nothing was done in 2016, and not much was done after Brexit,” says Jens-Kristian Lütken.

But they did in Paris, the mayor explains.

- “They were good at luring many English people across the Channel. They had a targeted strategy to attract companies and people from the financial sector. So it's with inspiration from there that we now need to be open to the Americans,” says Jens-Kristian Lütken.

And perhaps there is a chance that some will take up the offer. At least if you ask American Nancy Gerth, who TV 2 Kosmopol met on Strøget on Friday.

She is not happy about the election result and is actually not at all sure if she wants to stay in the US.

- “We're going to suffer four more years with Trump.

- We'll see how it goes, but if it continues this way, I might consider moving to another country, she says to TV 2 Kosmopol.

Wages can get in the way

At the Confederation of Danish Employers, Erik E. Simonsen, Deputy Director of Employment and Labor, welcomes the Americans.

- “It's always a good idea if there are skilled employees from other countries who are interested in coming to Denmark.

But as you know, it can be difficult to get a residence permit in Denmark. This can affect Americans who are unable to earn a high salary in Denmark.

- If you can't get a job where you can earn 400,000 [55,000 usd], it's virtually impossible to get a permit to work in Denmark and stay in Denmark, says Erik E. Simonsen.

Jens-Kristian Lütken, isn't this something you need to solve before you entice them to come here?

- Some of the solutions already exist. You can be allowed to apply for work in Denmark for a certain period and then subsequently get a residence permit. So some things are in place, but there are also some things that could be easier than they are today, says Jens-Kristian Lütken to TV 2 Kosmopol.


Yes, what a city needs is more "ideas guys" and the best ideas guys will be american financebros with enough money to leave their country on a whim.

anti-american rant
I cannot fathom why anyone would want more amerikkkans. In the time I lived in Copenhagen yankees were the absolute worst. Moving to the city because of their distaste for conditions in the US and then trying to make Copenhagen more like the US/Being mad conditions were different. Yeah parking is expensive, remember how you moved here for a walkable city? Oh waiters aren't super cheery? Remember how you disliked tipping culture? Oh people are more reserved when it comes to dating and don't just approach you on the street? Remember how happy you were to not be catcalled constantly? The taxes are high? Yeah but education and healthcare is free.
Why move here when you don't like it here? (Specifically talking about rich "expats" and not refugees and the like. There is so much to critique about danish immigration law and the system around it.)
This isn't just for Denmark though. I am privileged to have family that lives all over the world, so moving and living across borders has been easier for me than most. Almost everywhere I've lived it's been enshittified by americans.

Anyway it's laughable to say Denmark would in any way be better on immigration, it's one of the harshest places to emmigrate to. Here's a reddit thread discussing just that https://www.reddit.com/r/NewToDenmark/comments/1gny0up/americans_copenhagen_wants_you/

 

I struggle to keep going, I lack follow-through.
Got done with my big project (yay) but it could have been quicker. Want to not be tired from willing myself to do stuff.

 

Rad. Very rad. should-have-been-me
The music is pretty sick https://www.sprogheltene.dk/norre-neksus-radio

 

Gonna smoke a ciggie, drink black coffee and read Kafka in your honor

 

Me!

On the bright side I now have more time to argue with all of you about wether or not I am a wrecker lol

Weeeeeeee

I'm being let go in an hour probably

 

I don't know, but this comment from @[email protected] has given me some stuff to think about.

People should not think less of you on the base of the amount of sex you have, and you shouldn't either.

This is a nice thought, but insults based on amount of sex are absurdly common. I have seen quite a few people on this site who still do these insults, and it doesn't get removed when I report it. The incel article from a while go was about how we should critique incels for their misogyny rather than them failing to have sex, I see this as pretty similar to the arguments about not body-shaming fascists in that most of the people who will get hit by the insult are not the actual target. From what I remember, that article good job explaining why these insults are harmful and how they hurt a lot of people who they really shouldn't, unfortunately the discussion on that post was very off topic. In my experience, most people who have sex fail to recognize that not everyone who is celibate is an incel ("If so many terrible people have sex and you can't, that must mean you are worse than they are!").

I would say that insults based on amount of sex a person has should not be allowed, but I am very pessimistic about this actually leading to a change in site culture.

Once again, please assume good faith, even if you disagree with the take. If you think I mean something weirdly reactionairy by this post, ask me wether that is what I mean, instead of just saying that's what I mean please.
I don't want this to become a strugglesession, I just feel like this would be a good discussion to have. If this does become hostile, then please lock/remove it mods.

 

She went to the psych and got checked all because I asked her to and told her it would mean a lot to me if she did! Now she's considering meds even though she's kind of a herbal supplement crystal woowoo type person.

Now we just gotta get my grandmother to the brainmechanic.

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