Missionary slander is telling on yourself that you're bad at sex
Kiss other person, stare at them lovingly, play with their clit/dick, suck their neck, hit them, choke them
I'm on the train rn and there's been a NASA guy loudly talking about work stuff with another guy for the last hour
Apparently they keep losing their engineers and scientists to the private sector (mostly SpaceX) and they just lose their knowledge and know how of how to do things because there wasn't adequate knowledge transfer before they left
Like NASA apparently can no longer manufacture ceramic coating on rockets for re entry or something like that because they lost the one guy responsible for that to SpaceX, among many other things I didn't understand
Yea at that point it's definitely learned helplessness or having so strongly identified with your disability that you've completely stopped trying
Nobody talks about the stressors of picking a Halloween costume probably because it's completely optional, self inflicted, and of such low importance. Of all the issues that ADHD would give somebody why would anybody complain about this particular issue