this post was submitted on 11 Oct 2023
884 points (96.5% liked)

Ask Lemmy

33278 readers
1476 users here now

A Fediverse community for open-ended, thought provoking questions


Rules: (interactive)


1) Be nice and; have funDoxxing, trolling, sealioning, racism, and toxicity are not welcomed in AskLemmy. Remember what your mother said: if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. In addition, the site-wide Lemmy.world terms of service also apply here. Please familiarize yourself with them


2) All posts must end with a '?'This is sort of like Jeopardy. Please phrase all post titles in the form of a proper question ending with ?


3) No spamPlease do not flood the community with nonsense. Actual suspected spammers will be banned on site. No astroturfing.


4) NSFW is okay, within reasonJust remember to tag posts with either a content warning or a [NSFW] tag. Overtly sexual posts are not allowed, please direct them to either [email protected] or [email protected]. NSFW comments should be restricted to posts tagged [NSFW].


5) This is not a support community.
It is not a place for 'how do I?', type questions. If you have any questions regarding the site itself or would like to report a community, please direct them to Lemmy.world Support or email [email protected]. For other questions check our partnered communities list, or use the search function.


6) No US Politics.
Please don't post about current US Politics. If you need to do this, try [email protected] or [email protected]


Reminder: The terms of service apply here too.

Partnered Communities:

Tech Support

No Stupid Questions

You Should Know

Reddit

Jokes

Ask Ouija


Logo design credit goes to: tubbadu


founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS
 

I know I can nail the technical questions but I'm worried that i look sleazy.

The additional context wasn't necessary but I wanted to see how the photo posts are formatted for lemmy

top 50 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] [email protected] 300 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Old guy here with some dad advice. Given that you're concerned, I assume you don't dress like this on the regular.

Wear it around, a lot, beforehand. Get comfortable so you act comfortable. Interviews can be nerve wracking enough without fidgeting because you aren't used to the clothes you're wearing.

[–] [email protected] 97 points 2 years ago (9 children)

Yeah you're right, I don't usually wear this and it does feel weird. The pants, belts and shirt combined were only 40 dollars so I was really worried it would look cheap.

I appreciate the advice immensely.

[–] [email protected] 110 points 2 years ago

You look good. Have interviewed tons of people in my time. What you put together should be fine.

And if that's not good enough for some places you probably don't want to work at them anyway.

[–] [email protected] 51 points 2 years ago

It's not about the cost of the clothing, it's about the intent to appear professional at an interview. Trying is good.

I've seen people rock up to interviews wearing hoodies and tracksuit pants. So yeah dressing appropriately shows you're interested.

You look good! Good luck

[–] [email protected] 37 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I’m 8 years into the IT space and got my start at a help desk as well. Now I’m running a team for a large international company.

I’m not sure if Lemmy supports DM’s as I haven’t explored it much but please feel free to reach out to me with any questions etc and I’d be happy to give you some tips! You got this boss. 💪

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 years ago (1 children)

8 years in IT? you must be handsome AND talented, king

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 years ago

Another older fart here. As others have said, you look good! Wearing it a few times to get used to it is a great tip.

Especially since they are inexpensive clothes, if you need to clean them, wash and dry them carefully. Dunno your setup, but make sure the washer is set to cold or the low side of warm. Dry medium and don’t over dry. If the washer and dryer have a “permanent press” setting, that should work ok. Immediately hang them; don’t let them sit in the dryer.

load more comments (5 replies)
[–] [email protected] 24 points 2 years ago

There's many a times this could have been useful for me and I'll think I'll store this away for the future.

load more comments (2 replies)
[–] [email protected] 162 points 2 years ago (8 children)

I was an IT help desk manager for 10 years. Your attire is perfect, and it's a good sign that you're concerned about looking professional.

Here's a pro tip - In your interview you will almost certainly be asked how you'd solve an issue that you have no idea how to approach. What they're looking for is how you'll respond emotionally. The correct answer is to assure the end user that you will find a solution, don't panic, and then check internal documentation. "Have we run into this before?" Insist that the company should never have to solve the same issue twice because documentation is paramount. Never be afraid to say that you'd escalate the issue but KEEP OWNERSHIP. Ownership is huge to these people.

I'd be glad to go into more detail about what they'll be looking for if it will be helpful.

I won't wish you good luck because you've already got this!

[–] [email protected] 31 points 2 years ago (4 children)

I was never a direct manager, but I've been in on the hiring process for many candidates. Great advice, top to bottom.

When we interviewed we also liked to hear people say they'd Google it. It seems stupid but I want someone with the initiative to find the solution to a problem they've never seen.

Also the thing about ownership is key, and for us was always an indicator of someone who might want to move up later. Help desk folks who want to move up do everything they can feasibly do and offer their take on what they think the next level needs to do before escalating. If it truly needs to be handed off then it's because of permissions. But the best help desk people try to hang on to the ticket as long as they can so they can provide the most consistency to the end user.

load more comments (4 replies)
load more comments (7 replies)
[–] [email protected] 93 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

If you want your shirt to be buttoned all the way to the top, I would recommend pairing it with a tie. In addition, I might consider a lighter shirt as the overall outfit is pretty dark.

Don’t stress it too much though, your outfit is perfectly fine! Go ahead and kill it!

[–] [email protected] 122 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (4 children)

As someone who has been on both sides of a helpdesk interview, 99.5% of the time a tie is overkill. OP looks dressed for the job, and that's usually what they're looking for.

[–] [email protected] 43 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I wore a tie to my first interview as a programmer. Worked there for 15 years and I got made ribbed for wearing a tie (that one time) for 15 years.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Sounds about right. lol

For my first helpdesk job interview, the recruiter sent the wrong information in the interview packet. The dress code she sent said "business formal" so I went in all suited and tied. Looked like I was interviewing for CEO. The managers interviewing me were wearing jeans and polo shirts.

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Same. Although I would roll the sleeves. That’s how I interviewed for my latest help desk gig.

load more comments (2 replies)
load more comments (2 replies)
[–] [email protected] 65 points 2 years ago

You got this dude 🤙🏻

[–] [email protected] 62 points 2 years ago

HR person here that sometimes has helpdesk positions to fill as well. Absolutely appropriate. Like others already said, you are better dressed than most people we interview for such positions.

Piece of advice if you don't usually dress like that: Wear those clothes for a half a day going grocery shopping and doing regular daily shit. Helps make you feel more comfortable in them. Just give them a check up to see if they got dirty afterwards.

On a personal note, great choice of colours too. Best of luck to you!

[–] [email protected] 51 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

You look like an average human in nice clothes

[–] [email protected] 43 points 2 years ago (1 children)

You look fine, don't overthink that.

Good luck!

[–] [email protected] 40 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Thanks. I got the A+ a few days ago and I already got an interview. I know I'm insanely lucky so I don't wanna squander it.

load more comments (3 replies)
[–] [email protected] 36 points 2 years ago (2 children)

You're better dressed than 90% of software engineers I've interviewed. Definitely not goofy

load more comments (2 replies)
[–] [email protected] 35 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

You look fine to me! Only the belt is kinda strange. The pointy end should point towards your back, while the buckle should be aligned with the zipper

load more comments (2 replies)
[–] [email protected] 34 points 2 years ago

I think it's actually just about right for helpdesk. Good job OP. Crush that interview.

[–] [email protected] 31 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Looking sharp, my man. I think this looks fine for an interview. The point is that you are making an effort. You're not there to win a beauty contest, you're there to present yourself as a responsible and capable employee. Interviewers are generally aware that not everybody has the cash lying around to get a tailored suit for an interview, so it's okay if you look a little awkward or feel uncomfortable.

If you want to take this to the next level, look into "dress shirt stays" or "shirt keepers". They're a device that help keep the shirt looking freshly tucked, and some have the added benefit of also keeping your dress socks hiked up if you have that problem as well (like I always did).

Can't see your shoes in the pic, but obviously a nice pair of black dress shoes will really complete this outfit.

Good luck with your interview!

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] [email protected] 29 points 2 years ago

Appropriate attire I think. Make sure to leave the top button undone unless you wear a tie. If you're planning on wearing dress shoes you may want to switch to slacks over jeans (if they are jeans, if they're just a slightly more casual pant ignore this), but don't think that's a hard and fast rule or anything, you can still wear dress shoes with jeans if you don't have an in between type of shoe. Your dress socks and shoe color should match your belt, but again there are exceptions to any "rule" of fashion, just keeps it easy tho if you're unsure.

The shirt may be a tad big on you, I'd suggest tucking it in a little tighter unless you have time to get it tailored (just go to a dry cleaner, cheap and usually a few days to turn around, shouldn't be more than like $15ish depending on your area).

I have no idea of your hygiene but as others have said make sure you aren't giving off anything off putting. Deodorant, brush teeth obvi, maybe a small spritz of a light cologne (one spray, no more, spray in the air in front of you and walk under it).

[–] [email protected] 27 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I have hired lots of IT staff: Your outfit is fine, but you might want to make sure your shirt is fully tucked in so you look a little more squared away.

Just relax, be yourself, and remember you are interviewing them just as much as they are interviewing you.

load more comments (3 replies)
[–] [email protected] 27 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

looking sharp; own it

ps - interesting name lol

[–] [email protected] 31 points 2 years ago (1 children)

FreeBSD was a nightmare for me to use. I applaud the people who managed to resolve those driver issues.

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] [email protected] 27 points 2 years ago

You look perfect. Very professional. Not over suited up for the role. I hire a lot of people and you look exactly how I'd expect an interviewee to show up. You got this, you're gonna crush it big dog! DM me for cheerleading any time

[–] [email protected] 26 points 2 years ago

I would trust you with my technical questions! You look professional!

[–] [email protected] 23 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

You look fine, but what in God's name is going on with your belt? Is it just on backwards or something? If its too long and you need a new one, I'd go with one just a little wider. And maybe also roll your sleeves up? Unrolled sleeves with no jacket always feels a little awkward to me, but you gotta do it neatly.

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] [email protected] 21 points 2 years ago (6 children)

as a guy that hires people like you; you look just fine don't worry about it

load more comments (6 replies)
[–] [email protected] 21 points 2 years ago (3 children)

You look great! I've interviewed my fair share of help desk people, some with rumpled clothes or worst, smelly clothes. Keep them clean and not wrinkled and you'll be fine. Great advice all around in the other comments. And take note of the belt one especially, it has to be clasped above the zipper. You got this!

load more comments (3 replies)
[–] [email protected] 21 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I'd hire you in IT based on appearance alone. Let us know how it goes!

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 years ago

Not goofy at all! Fairly understated, in fact. You look clean and neat, like you already work at a helpdesk

[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Looks good! At some point they're going to ask if you have any questions, make sure you ask at least one. It shows that you're interested and paying attention.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I like to ask the interviewer what he likes about working at the company.

load more comments (1 replies)
load more comments (1 replies)
[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 years ago

Move the belt buckle to center. Otherwise it looks good

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 years ago

TBH you're dressed a hell of a lot better than some of the people I've interviewed recently.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 years ago

Looks professional to me. Good luck!

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 years ago

Sharp as hell man, you got this

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Attire is totally appropriate. Unasked for advice incoming: If you don't wear button down clothes often, wear this all day today and tomorrow. Do everything in it. Dont worry about wrinkling it. Then wash it before the interview. The reason is because many nervous candidates will fidget with their clothes. It shows they lack confidence. But how nervous would you be in your own pyjamas? Wear your (clean, pressed) interview clothes as if they were the most casual, cozy things you have.

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 years ago

Perfectly fine attire. I've been getting jobs in IT since your level in similar attire. There are few companies that care about ties in interviews. And most aren't the kind you want to work for anyways. Business casual works just fine

load more comments
view more: next ›