jwsmrz

sounds great, too many organizing efforts are ruined by people smashing and then causing drama with one another tbh especially when folks are young

that makes sense, my assumption is that if T levels were really crushed while having the fellas downstairs, it won't make a difference if they're gone

cargo pants are good because they have nice pockets and the form lends itself to be flattering to trans fem people (hardcore big pants / small top mode)

im gay

I just want to make a comment so we can make this one bigger than the last one

also a funny thing is I had a consult for an orchi last week and on the list of "alternative low impact treatments" its like

• tucking (okay sure)
• anti-androgens (okay sure)
• vaginoplasty (uhhhhh)

still not 100% sure if I want to chop the boys off, but wanted to get the referral process started just in case. my main anxieties are losing function of my doodad, and also signing up for a lifetime of hormonal medication

yeah so nothing is universal with trans people, so it's always good to have a chat / bring up what you're wondering before you bone

usually if I'm with someone new who is trans I like to ask what they like their bits called (maybe what some people might call a clit is actually a cock now for example) and what makes them feel best and most comfortable, anything that makes them feel uncomfortable etc. I think it's also worth asking how they feel about their chest since lots of trans masc folks dislike it being touched or even having it bare.

might feel like an uncomfortable or awkward discussion, but personally one of the reasons I don't like to fuck new cis people is because it always ends up with me having to lead a sex ed seminar, so it would probably be refreshing to have someone take the lead on respectful communication.

make no assumptions, tread politely, be a nice boy

hope you get strapped or whatever, godspeed soldier

giggity

currently wondering how many people there are in the world that sound just like peter griffin because of this

ah okay, bummer

I've collaborated with these folks in the past and they might be able to point you in a useful direction

https://www.rainbowrailroad.org/request-help

Found these folks, not sure if they're good or not, could be worth a shot

https://www.migrationlawgroup.com/