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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

It's not gay if they are a woman (many trans women have dicks) and you are a man. It is by definition straight.

However if a trans woman and a cis woman decided to do it together it would be gay (I should know, I'm a trans lesbian).

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (2 children)

(b) implied they take it up the ass.

FYI That doesn't mean they aren't straight, there are trans women who have the ability and are comfortable doing that, and if a femboy and a trans women are in a relationship like that, it's straight.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

I don't think mine is, she certainly doesn't bother me. Two things about being AMAB that I actually kinda like are my mustache and my genitals.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Aww dang it, it was only after I posted this that I remembered the alternate meaning of ACAB. I thought it was just funny and relatable at the time since I'm a trans woman who feels that part doesn't invalidate my identity.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Say what you want about Cisco, but their hold music slaps

https://youtu.be/nLpm4aysr8I

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

How does my home instance lemm.ee fare? Are they a good one?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Makes sense to me, AMAB these days has little to do with maleness, it just describes if someone was born with a dick and balls, that's how they decide "It's a boy" when the baby is born anyway, even though they might be dead wrong 🏳️‍⚧️

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

That's what I did as well, just because god or whatever higher power gave me a penis doesn't make me any less of a woman.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I think it might have been partly because I said to her once that I wanted to try and reduce or prevent muscle loss on HRT and maybe she took that as me having second thoughts about getting HRT. Also she didn't specifically say that girlmoding or commitment was required for HRT but that she found my lack of it concerning. I shouldn't beat myself up too much for it though. She was trying to gatekeep me, I didn't mess up by telling her that.

I was thinking that I would take HRT long enough for permanent changes to set in since one thing that I do worry about is muscle loss on HRT. Then I'd stop taking it and the blockers, probably gradually and let my body's natural hormones take over again. I'm not sure how bad muscle loss on HRT is, I've heard some people say it's not that bad but I've heard others say enthusiastically that it'll "melt your muscles away like butter". If it's closer to the second I definitely plan to stop in the future.

Also yeah, I guess what I'm doing would be considered informed consent, not DIY. Im my defense I've heard many people call it DIY and I'm still very much a noob a this whole trans thing (only came out a few months ago and I learn new things everyday 😅).

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Agreed, I'm not a fan of being stared at like that just because I'm trans and a tomboy. Happens often (especially since I'm still unfortunately pre-HRT, not for long though).

[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

That seems shitty (also FYI trap is a nasty word). I'm not doing that at all. I try and be very clear that I'm a girl. A masculine girl who likes sports, cars, and getting dirty but a girl no less.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 months ago

Probably not, I've just had a lot of experiences with people getting surprised when I tell them I'm a tomboy and transfem, and I thought this comic was relatable since apparently people think that.

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(I've always wanted to be a tomboy)

 

(I've always wanted to be a tomboy)

 

Do you think it's purely hateful or do you think it has some merit in certain contexts?

Personally I think it is a transphobic and dehumanizing term that objectifies and sexualizes trans women based on our anatomy, that should never be used in any context, but I'd love to hear what other people think.

 
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Art by VeEight on FurAffinity

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Technically I asked my friend to call me by feminine terms to try it out, but the result is the same. Egg cracked, found out I'm a trans girl.

 
 

I feel like I am, I am admittedly spending New years alone, but considering what happened on Christmas probably would be best not to spend it with my family. I plan to watch the countdown on TV maybe have a Beer or two, nothing fancy.

 

They're still a bit sore afterwards but overall I'm thrilled. I've always wanted to get my ears pierced but was told since I was a boy I could only get one pierced, so I never did it back then, but since I'm not actually a boy (I'm a trans girl) I figured why let that stop me.

Anyone got any recommendations for earrings I should get that suit a tomboy aesthetic? rn I have only the basic studs but I'm looking to get some more for after the healing process is complete. Any suggestions?

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