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blunder
i feel like the vibes will be clearer IRL tho, is it flirty? is it strictly friendly? are small flirtatious comments or gestures engaged with or do they slip by? is there a lot of eye contact? are they primping their appearance, smoothing clothes, fixing hair? are eyes wandering or is there talk about each other's bodies? is the prospect of hanging out longer/again enthusiastic or do they already have plans after? does the other person talk about someone else they are interested in or dating? and if that stuff turns out to be absent they can still just have a nice time together, tho it definitely does sting
i guess the op is saying she doesn't feel confident in her game but i feel like all of the above is lost over text. that's just how i operate tho, i'm too old for texting lol
not intending to argue with u at all btw just relishing in the tea and love hearing other people's approach to courtship
i agree with your sentiment but personally i think you gotta have this conversation face to face, sending a message like that and then waiting for a response, and the person on the other end knowing that you're waiting for their response, with no body language cues etc., sounds torturous to me. just my opinion tho
The fact that my brain can be used to know things like that is why very often