Jerusalemspiderman

I am!

I resemble that remark.

But the big hairy bastard didn't ping me right, so I'm just now seeing this

Dude. Ffs.

I'm going to repeat the warning against fetishizing people only here, because the previous warning about that was better than I could say.

But I've dated trans women. Had sex with them too.

It wasn't some kind of fantasy or fetish for me, I just don't see trans women as anything other than women. I have my preferences, but it's really more about the connection than anatomy anyway. If I ever had a connection with a man, I'd at least try it out.

Just putting it out there, since you're asking about sexual stuff rather than romance, there are differences in anatomy between cis and trans women, but there's differences in anatomy between different cis women, and different trans women. Things feel different when you're fucking, yeah. But not better or worse. It's like the differences between getting your dick sucked, fucking a cis vagina, and fucking a cis woman in the ass. You'll like what you like, and better is subjective.

Trans women aren't some kind of magic fuck that's going to change your life. Nobody is a magic fuck like that. So don't expect your fantasy to compare to reality. You've got your head wrapped up in what you think trans women are, and they're just women. No real woman can match imagination like that, trans or cis.

Also, be fucking respectful. A lot of trans women have issues with their bodies because that's part of being trans. If you find someone to play fantasy fuckball with you, you treat them like gold. You don't go around treating their body like a fucking private tour of transness. You make out, you fuck, and don't be a fucking asshole.

If someone is willing to get sexual with you, and it turns out that the fantasy doesn't work, that you have some kind of turn off, you be a decent human being. You should do that with anyone agreeing to fuck you, but since whoever it is will be doing you a favor by opening themselves up to being your fetish, you go the extra mile to make sure you respect that.

We all like what we like, and if you don't like it you shouldn't fake it, but you can be a gentleman about it. If you can't, then stay the fuck home and jerk off.

Nah, you had to see the post it was in response to.

I didn't get a chance to screen shot it, but it was a six panel, about a guy that got rich talking to a friend about not knowing what to do now.

The friend gives a bunch of normal ideas like funding charities, and the rich guy in the last panel says, paraphrased, "I'll fuck children".

That's what the comment was springing off of. It was saying the same thing, just more exaggerated.

Depends on which parts of the family.

Most of the people on my dad's side are within an hour drive. Most of my mom's side is technically in another state, but it's only about a two hour drive. It would be less, but the fucking mountains.

Farthest away in state is a solid 3 hour drive. But, again, there's people in another state that are closer as the crow flies, but across the mountains so that it would take an extra hour just to get to where you could drive to them. It's one of those things where you can't get there from here, you have to go somewhere else first.

But I can hop on my scooter and be at my sister's in maybe five minutes. It's walking distance if you can walk that kind of distance in the first place. My brother is maybe a half hour drive.

Man, people are just addicted to drama, and so locked into their own heads that they can't step outside of it for even a minute.

You don't make fun of halal or kosher? Where's the fun in that?!

No, everyone in Ohio should rise the fuck up and stop this stupidity.

I'm not even sure.

Whatever comes with mint? I had a hard drive die, and my buddy hooked me up when I realized I couldn't read the windows key on the sticker any more. He was going to do some kind of fuckery to let me keep 7 despite that, but he'd been talking about Linux for a few years, so I asked what he thought about that.

He asked me a few questions, about what kind of programs I need to use, and when none of them were a pain in the ass for an idiot like me to deal with, he set it up for me. Told me it was mint, helped me set things up where they look nice and made sure I have what I need. Haven't fucked with anything since, and that was about two years ago.

Exactly :)

Fuck yes

One of the best friends I've ever had banned me from one of his subs because I was fucking with him as a prank of sorts

The guy poured his time and energy into making any sub he was associated with being as relaxed, friendly, and free of bullshit as possible.

And the dude got death threats.

Reddit ran off the best mods, the ones that really cared. Most of those came here.

Most mods are like him, they're trying to help build something good, and keep it that way. Even the ones that wield the ban hammer often tend to only do so for disruptive assholes like me.