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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 years ago

Sigh... When I was young and skinny I was quite the hit with gay dudes. LOL, more so than with the ladies. Now that I'm middle-aged and skinny, nada.

OTOH, and good for me, women are diggin' the mature, thin, full-hair, all-my-own-teeth look. So I got that going for me.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

As a straight guy, is this true? I'm constantly ashamed of the way I look because I've been told by multiple people I have a "dad bod". They didn't really have any kind of tone. It was mostly just matter-of-fact, so I figured it must be an insult :\

Edit: Thank you so much for the the responses. I know I'm not the only one who's never received too many compliments, so I really have no idea how "attractive" I am

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Oh fuck no. Dad Bods are hot as FUCK. Own it! People love to pretend to thirst over muscle guys, and sure they might be hot, but a good dad bod? Hnng.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I'll bite, what makes a dad bod. Like would you define Bert Kreischer as a dad bad or what?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

According to people who have seen me and told me I have a dad bod I can only guess it's a flabby, pear-shaped torso.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Dad bod = not in fighting shape anymore, but been team carry for so long that my own appearance is not a priority anymore

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 years ago

There’s obviously a lot of different body types that attract different people, but a lot of guys love that bulky/beefy/slightly overweight look of a dad bod. A previously athletic/muscular type that has gained some weight is my particular preference

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

As a gay dude, big, hairy, thick, mature daddys are the most cuddly and sexy things on the planet to me.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

Agreeeeeeeeeeeeed

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago

I have a dad bod and a beard, but no tattoos. 😔

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

I finally know what I want a tattoo of to be thinking about getting one.

I want the boykisser meme. :3

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

stop trying to make gay happen, Gretchen, its not going to happen!