adult woman fetish
I hope my wife never finds out that I originally started dating her because of my adult woman fetish.
this post was submitted on 04 Jul 2025
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Shameless pedophiles are just the worst. 
I hope I don't catch flak for this, but part of me feels bad for adults attracted to minors that DON'T want to be. Like fuck shameless pedophiles that actively prey on children, but I'd image there's also people out there who quietly live with the disorder and fucks their life up. There was a documentary I watched by Louis Theroux once about a special prison just for pedophiles and it was kind of sad. Like it's obvious they weren't getting the help they needed inside and it was just a place to hold them so they wouldn't be murdered in prison. The only real way out was voluntary chemical castration and come on that's pretty barbaric.
It sucks you can't approach or talk about these people without the baggage of violent pedophiles who actually hurt people.
idk hope I'm not too off base here.
You're not off base at all. Being attracted to children is not the issue here (and people shouldn't be stigmatized for that alone). The real issue is the willingness to traumatize others just for a few minutes of pleasure, which isn't exclusive to pedophiles.
But because this whole topic so incredibly emotionally charged, people really can't differentiate between those 2 things, which makes any sort of discussion pretty much impossible.
The real issue is the willingness to traumatize others just for a few minutes of pleasure, which isn't exclusive to pedophiles.
I actually remember reading about a study that was carried out on a group of inmates who had been sentenced for sexually abusing children, and apparently it showed that a majority of them weren't actually pedophiles in the clinical sense, as in having a primary sexual preference for children, but were rather opportunists who chose children as victims out of convenience. Children are easier to manipulate both mentally and physically than adults, so that's what they went for.
I have read a similar study about people caught with CSAM. They largely weren't attracted to children, they just wanted the rush of looking at something unacceptable.
The real issue is the willingness to traumatize others just for a few minutes of pleasure, which isn't exclusive to pedophiles.
Exactly, like it's so extremely normalized for men to just reduce down the target of their lust into a depersonalized sex-thing to control and own and use for their own entertainment. This is what I think is at the heart of how reactionaries breathlessly try to draw lines between pedophilia (the disorder) and the crime of preying on teenagers, because the latter is just a slight realignment downwards from what they are already believe is normal and ok (men controlling and exploiting women), and they see hurting and exploiting people as fine but being "weird" as an intolerable mortal insult.
Also ever since the "height gap discourse" thread I've been stuck with the realization that the problem is not that someone being attracted to a short woman who is not well endowed is "icky", it's the literally everything else that goes along with projecting one's desires onto someone who does not and/or fundamentally cannot reciprocate them, the dehumanization and reduction of a person down to just a fetish object to be taken and owned, the innate power imbalance and how it facilitates abuse and control, even the ephemerality of someone wanting to have someone for a trait that they will inevitably stop having in short order. All of these are problems with how toxic the accepted "normal" male expression of sexuality in our society is, because these are horrible issues when they're directed at adults and they only get worse as their targets get younger, with the power imbalance increasing and increasing and the way that genuine enthusiastic consent stops even being a hypothetical possibility.
people really can't differentiate between those 2 things,
That and the fact that an overwhelmingly large amount of people who are just "harmlessly" indulging in lolicon hentai or similar victimless art are also virulent misogynistic fascists who are actively getting more alienated and radicalized into right wing bile because it validates their self-serving, dehumanizing desires and twists any feelings of guilt or self-loathing into outwardly directed violence, all the while further conditioning and reinforcing their desires and probably tacking on a whole bunch of revolting rationalizations to it too.
It seems like the number of people who have a genuine disorder that gives them intrusive thoughts that are at odds with their ethical beliefs is extremely small compared to the population that's just "typical shitty fascist straight guy whose brain has rotted to the point that his accepted targets of lust include young teens and children, and has become obsessed with the latter because of brainworms."
someone being attracted to a short woman who is not well endowed is "icky"
Wait, there are people on here who actually believe this? I must have missed this lol
Like what would they expect women who are built like that to do with that information, should they just resign themselves to being forever alone because apparently anyone who finds them attractive has to be some some weird creep that must be avoided?
Wait, there are people on here who actually believe this?
That was the subject of a wild post that got linked here, uh was it sometime last year? I can't remember if anyone actually took the side of the person in the post, but I remember it being a very long thread so it was either a slop feeding frenzy or a struggle session.
anyone who finds them attractive has to be some some weird creep that must be avoided?
I will mention that that seems to be a somewhat common complaint that women with more childlike figures have, that they have repeated bad experiences with guys who are treating them as "a legal alternative" and pushing age play on them or just being kind of creepy and as a result are immediately suspicious of anyone who's into them.
Although "repeated bad experiences with guys" is also a normal straight woman thing.
I will mention that that seems to be a somewhat common complaint that women with more childlike figures have, that they have repeated bad experiences with guys who are treating them as "a legal alternative" and pushing age play on them or just being kind of creepy and as a result are immediately suspicious of anyone who's into them.
Sorry, but I don't buy this. This sounds like something that only exists on the internet.
There was a documentary (vice, I think?) with a woman with a genetic disorder that makes her look like tween. She says dating is really hard because there's tons of creeps who are attracted to her only because she looks like a child, and the few good men she meets are always on edge about being seen having a romantic relationship with someone who looks like a child.
This is an extreme case, but all this to say that it happens.
Wait, there are people on here who actually believe this?
There's a difference between "This is a woman who I am attracted to, and she has x and y features that you could call neotenous if you really wanted to" vs "I specifically have a sexual attraction to more neotenous women"
Yeah, like, if you find yourself dating someone who looks young, that's one thing. If your "type" is young-looking women, that's more suspicious.
I read an article a long while ago about a group of people who were sexually attracted to children, and didn't want to be. It was really sad. But a key thing was they weren't abusing anyone and didn't want to. I don't think those people deserve to be crucified. It's better if they can reach out for help. I think right now if someone admitted what their involuntary response was, they'd be lumped in with the worst sorts of abusers.
I agree with you, "pedophile" and "child abuser" aren't synonyms and pedophilia itself is a mental illness, I don't see why anyone would "choose" to be a pedophile and we absolutely should at least try to help non-offenders who want to get better.
However you seemingly can't bring this up without getting labelled a pedo sympathiser so I just don't bother anymore.
I don't see why anyone would "choose" to be a pedophile
It is worth noting that there are people who don't seem to have the mental illness (nor are victims of CSA) but seem to like it as a power thing, ranging from weebs to soldiers.
But you are right there are people who just have the mental illness, are revolted at the idea of hurting children, and desperately need help that doesn't impugn on their character for something that isn't their fault.
I mean, it shows empathy, which is one of the most important things to have
We can't have a functioning society if everyone is constantly suspecting each other of being a "deviant" which is exactly why the old canard of "Think about the children!" comes from
Personally, I'm a lot more worried about the men who beat their step kids to death, the women who starve their children and a government which allows any of this to happen
If you want to reduce occurences of abuse I think it would make good sense to make sure that pedophiles had easy and anonymous access to non-judgemental therapy. We would like as many as possible to seek professional help.
As for those actually convicted of abuse the same principle applies, they need help, not just for their own sake but certainly also for the children's sake.
Minus ten points for the slur, but plus a hundred points for having some common sense and morals.
Hence why I censored it, trying to find a good post from 4chan without slurs is the needle in the haystack.
I mean gamers normally have under-age fetish so an adult woman can only be a fetish for them.
I wish Japan wasn't so comfortable with outright pedophilia. It's hard to find works from the country that don't go into uncomfortable territory when it comes to minors.
I quit playing fire emblem because of that. I forget exactly which one, it was in the Ds/3ds era, but it was a fun enough tactics game until suddenly they introduce the "I'm a thousand year old dragon that only looks like a 6 year old girl in a bikini" character 
I didn't keep playing after that
Once again asking Japan to fucking stop it with this shit.
I'm a thousand year old dragon that only looks like a 6 year old girl in a bikini
That statement could apply to at least half the games in the series.
Damn that was my first (and last) fire emblem game, I just recognized Marth from Super Smash Bros and figured I'd give it a shot. I didn't know it was Pedophilia: The Game
They are good SRPGs and the roster is big enough to just bench the dragons and ignore them for the vast majority of the game (and skip all the romantic supports). But your personal tolerance will vary.
They are all easy to pirate as well.
The anime culture around loli and shit are bizarre but what really bothered me was the story of Nobuhiro Watsuki, the author of Rurouni Kenshin, that got caught with tons of CSAM, so much that people think that he didn't only consume that shit but produce it and distributing it. This garbage human being is still praised and the vast majority of mangakas drew shit tons of art for the commemoration of whatever many years of Rurouni Kenshin.
Yeah I remember his case. It's like anime has this thing where you'll have good adult characters then there's the arbitrary child character solely for the pedophile otaku in the audience and I hate it.
It's sort of like how animal mascots get shoehorned in.
The worst part is that he was fined ¥200,000 for it all (less than $2000 USD)
This was recommended to me on a dating app by someone whose only other recommendation was Ancient Magus Bride.
I liked the Ancient Magus Bride anime, the production of it, the opening song is beautiful but fuck the history is so fucking bizarre.
Guy I have a confession, I have a sick disgusting fetish...
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Adult women
Hexbear has gone WOKE 
Satire is dead. I can't tell if the original is being ironic or sincere
what the fuck does it say about us on the fact these dumbfucks run circles around us in every culture war?
The entire media apparatus is built to give them a platform while diminishing ours. They are given near unlimited resources to spread hateful bullshit and if any leftist movement starts to gain traction it will be brutally and violently suppressed. It's not that they're winning the "culture war" it's that the powers that be want people to be dumb and hateful, so they give the dumbest and most hateful people a megaphone to spread those views.
In a "level playing field" their nonsense would be laughed out of the room and they would be relentlessly mocked for their bad takes.
Pretty bleak stuff.
They're not publically dunked on hard enough. They will keep winning as long as normals still think these people are just like them.
Mods are holding us back.
See what I mean?
Culture wars are based on passion. The more wrong you are the harder you have to have to work to maintain it. The immense pressure of that sharpens the mind like a knife. It is like trying to fight a deep sea fish underwater.
Modern Scarlet is very femdom 
That soldier as the foot rest is so lucky.
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