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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Work out, do DIY at home, volunteer at my local cat shelter and dedicate more time to making music, gaming and general computer fiddlin'. If it was literally just basic needs with no cash maybe host some services for people on a small scale or teach about self hosting for money to afford luxuries.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

Read, learn, create, and explore.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

Judging by what I've seen lately: crime and opression to maintain my status because I only understand the world through the lenses of artficial scarcity and zero sum game theory.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

I'd love to go back to school, not for better grades, but purely for learning. There are some interesting af fields out there!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago
[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

This depends. But based on how much I have, one of these:

Open a small bar/tapas place in my neighborhood.

Travel

Do what I do when not working - garden, read, exercise, take care of the land & the animals, go see live music.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I achieved this 2 years ago. I spend my time rock climbing, travelling to rock climbing, hanging with friends, lifting, running, tackling little diy projects, working part time in a fun job to get some extra spending money, and trying to sleep with as many hot women as possible.

This is a lot of fun, and I highly recommend it.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

Art and music.

Science research.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I’d sell all my things to just travel. Living in one place and being stuck in a routine is like a mental prison for me.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

I would make handcrafted furniture, work on my garden, and contribute to open source software that supports both farming and woodcrafts.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Id probrally learn programming and become a Linux distro/software maintainer for projects like Debian and maybe Libreboot.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Retire. Fighting my medical conditions is a full time job as it is.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

All I want to do in life is make music, woodworking, and gardening for food. I would do that until I expired with a smile on my face.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Write, program, cook, maybe have sex

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Same thing I do for money now, handyman shit

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Today being labor day I would go down to the protest downtown, instead I'm going to the office to do as little work as I can manage, maybe have a couple meetings to slow other people down today too

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

I'd travel, try new cuisine, and I'd also pick up jobs for short stints to pick up skills, almost like journeyman apprentice, I'd also do some kind of social work, and go back to academia with the intent to actually learn and not just to get a degree and get a job, but to potentially do some actual research and development

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Short answer: work less.

Long answer: I actually enjoy my job, and have for a long time. If I had won several million long ago I would have kept my job because it (most of the time) was very fulfilling and important, though it has largely wrecked my body.

Now I can't fly anymore, so while my job is still important and fulfilling, it's not nearly as exciting, and I am constantly crazy busy, so I'd love to cut my hours about in half, probably. I'd still want to work.

Oh, and I'd build a forge in my backyard. So maybe work the same amount, but some of my time crafting things.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago
[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Make and restore furniture. Build shit. Garden. Read. Organize and fill out my media library. Learn programming and try to fix some of the problems I'm dealing with on Linux. Probably socialize more because I wouldn't be tired of dealing with people and stressed out from work all the time.

[–] nylo 5 points 1 month ago (3 children)
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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

If I were rich Id open a "Nerd-pub" board games, tabletop games, arcade machines, pool tables, pinball machines...

If I were just "doing ok" id probably start a youtube channel buying really cheap cars of FB marketplace and just reviewing how much of a piece of shit I've bought this month.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Exercise, play music, go jogging around town and meet new people all the time. Basically what I do now except not having to condense it into the little time I have off.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Make a tiny caravan and travel all over

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'd grow food. Good food, and way more than I or my family could possibly eat. I'd also grow beautiful, ecosystem-supporting native plants. I'd offer to do the same for my neighbors who dont enjoy such things, or who just want a beautiful and functional yard.

With my leftover time i'd go hiking a couple times a week, and I'd read scientific literature when the sun goes down.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Make music, check it out:

www.thassodar.com

I don't make money from it so I'd still do it even if all my needs were met.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

I’d be a teacher

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Run an animal sanctuary and grow lots of veggies and flowers

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Write, read and analyze literature. Hopefully I’ll be able to do it as a job.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

i'd pick a direction and start walking.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I'll tell you what I'd do, man...

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Making furniture with woodworking or maybe kitchen utensils with blacksmithing.

I work in cloud tech. Pretty good at it.

But I feel like I should be doing something with my hands. Like woodworking or blacksmithing.

I live in a apartment so I don't have the space to even try out hobby stuff. It's also expensive to do either.

I settled for electrical stuff and bought a bunch of gear to learn soldering. Playing with breadboard is interesting but I enjoy the soldering more.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

When the weather is good, be outside as much as possible. Do more long-distance, or even multi-day treks. Dick around in the woods more (survival skills for fun, learn more about identifying local plants and fungi, etc). Bring a book and some basic snacks, and hang out in public park space more often (we've got some beautiful spaces here). Basically just a lot more exploration, primarily on foot, bike, or skateboard depending on distance and energy level.

When the weather is crap, spend more time keeping my place in order and looking nice. Listen to music, read books, maybe try and get more deliberate about a writing habit. Pick a public indoor space of some kind and become a regular. Maybe volunteer.

Spend more time working on good habits to keep the energy level up for the above long term.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Build Legos and Gundam models. Finish writing my novel I keep restarting. Hold more Hunter: The Reckoning sessions for the group I Storytell for. Game, work my way through my backlog. Spend more time with my wife.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Purse writing

Help my community with the things I have expertise in.

Have children

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Volunteer at a rescue centre to help the dogs and other animals

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

I can answer this because it's true. I work out daily, cook every meal, hangout all day with my dogs, explore YouTube rabbit holes, and read scifi. Without an alarm, I'm suddenly a morning person. Up by five with energy. I'm trying to figure out my next move. Weird thing is, it's probably another career. Just on my terms

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Make music, perform music, make games, make movies, write small books and maybe draw pictures.

And then I would try out being a research attorney, being an EMT, a pilot, maybe working with NASA at some point and working for some government agency specializing in digital warfare.

People always assume if you had everything you would just sit at home and be lazy and never try anything. But from my experience you don't do that shit just because you're complacent, you do it because either you are way too stressed out to try out new stuff or you are in the middle of a depressive episode. Almost all people I know wouldn't be able to be lazy for more than 2 weeks, they would start making something.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Continue to work and fuck over poor people is very popular.

[–] _cryptagion 3 points 1 month ago

Spend as much time as I could in nature or playing video games. Or playing video games while in nature. Lots of camping.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Find a deserted corner in the Pacific Northwest temperate rainforest, likely up near Haida Gawaii, and just… vanish.

I like civilization in general for the benefits it brings. I even like a few people. But humanity in general…

I truly enjoy solitude.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

I would find work where I enjoy myself, and get a hobby of travelling the world and documenting cultures

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