By taking care of her. Take initiative, propose movies / games / ice-creams whatever. Things you like, things you think she'll like. She's having a hard time reaching out to you, do your best to reach out to her.
It's not your fault, but it isn't hers either. Try to have fun together, she'll get to know how you work and you don't one step at a time.
Je "suis" .ml moi, et les posts Lemmy sont identiques à priori ; je vois une différence avec les liens Archive, ou .world n'a que 15 commentaires, et jlai'lu 6
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Ah je l'ai déjà vue celle-là, "z'y-va explique-moi la théorie du genre pasque je suis trop bête, j'ai pas compris"
Faut supporter le cringe, voire le pathétique.
J'imagine qu'il y a des droitistes articulés (avez-vous lu l'article du WSJ "Next: Defund the UN" que jai posté dans étatsunis ?), mais en général on arrive à de vastes silences accompagnés de "tu vois quoi", "et tout ça hein" et autres "ouais moi je sais pas bien mais"
Le plus intéressant est de leur demander de définir ces termes :
Etc etc tu peux en balancer à longueur de journée où jamais ils pourront avouer que woke, c'est tout ce qu'ils osent pas avouer être, inavouables.
Ballaké Sissoko & Piers Faccini "Our calling" vient de sortir et est en tournée aussi
https://piersfacciniballaksissoko.bandcamp.com/album/our-calling
Je les ai vus (et entendu) en vrai et c'est très bien
In short, like anyone else:
He's absolutely right, and utterly annoying
Re-read your own words. This went from unhealthy to straight-up dangerous.
A bit late tho. This should have been his first reaction, as underlined in the article, rather than coming after losing Marcan and Herbst.
As a Asahi user I am a bit partial to this: the kernel has tons of corporate-backed devs on a stable payroll - Asahi is 100% volunteers, and this shit reminds us of the frailty of it all.
And of the human being behind:
https://marcan.st/2025/02/resigning-as-asahi-linux-project-lead/
...After coming in mid-fight with "you are the problem", acting just like another bickering drama-queen & solving nothing, worsening the situation & prompting actual damage.
"You can ignore the
SHA...files if you do not know what they are needed for. They are not important for you."
...That's where I stopped reading this.
You can't deny what she likes ; what you can do is ask her to explain: what is it about it that resonates with her? Can we sit down, turn the volume way down, and spend a few minutes checking out her fav's in that style while she tells you why she likes that stuff?
(The subtlety here is not asking her to justify herself, but to explain to that out-of-the-loop, quite-geriatric Dear Bro)
Her answers don't matter much - what matters is asking her to view the topic critically, and verbalise it that so that you "get" that side of her.
Also, "I love you but I fucking hate that shit" can work you know.
Good luck.