Gabagoul
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I appreciate this aspect of the community as well.
I think that most people have the ability to gather context queues and understand that I meant “their” but typed “there”.
Correcting people’s grammar when the context is already understood is such “smartest person in the room”, libshit behavior. I hate it so much and get so mad at my friends for doing it. There is no reason to break up the flow of conversation just to call out my honest typo and prove they are better at dumb English than I am or whatever.
Most of the petite bourgeoisie does believe that America is great and that everyone should be thankful for the position they have in life.
So, no I don’t think it’s gaslighting, I think it’s propaganda from the ruling class and blissful ignorance from the people who think the middle class exists.
I spoke to a new therapist and have something lined up for the new year. Now I just need to figure out how to break up with my current therapist. Either way, made some strides this week.
now i'm starting to wonder if you are me from another dimension because i done this same thing too.
Hahaha, I swear I’m not! But yeah, it makes a lot of sense that this behavior isn’t just me. Makes me feel a bit better about my chances of fixing this too.
Thanks for the helpful response, this is my first therapy experience and I feel weird about breaking up with them, but their job is to support me and give me perspective, even if that perspective is agreeing that I need something/someone new.
Sorry kiddo, capitalism has proved that capitalism is the only way to achieve real capitalism.
Thanks for the response, the camaraderie means a lot. Knowing when to cut people out of your life is just as important as knowing how to let people into it. I hope things start looking up for you. Happy holidays, comrade.
Yeah, I’ve been talking to a therapist for a while now, but am realizing that I have misrepresented/mischaracterized myself and my issues a bit. I need to find a new one and start over with the real issues being the target.
I’ve realized that part of my lying to myself is not allowing me to be completely open and honest with my therapist. That has lead to them thinking I am making great strides, when I’m really not. They praise my progress and I take those affirmations and go about my life still broken and still negatively affecting my loved ones with the same old bullshit I always have.
It’s a cycle that needs to end, otherwise it will be the end of my relationship… My partner doesn’t deserve this and she has all but told me so… When my issues are affecting my partner to the point of resenting me, it’s time to fucking stop and do something differently.
Paging Luigi! We got another one!
Thanks for the response. It’s really good to hear you found something that works for you. I am still trying to get to that point.
I’ve been living in a fairy tale for the past 3 years thinking that I’m making progress, which I have been on some things. However, the biggest issue I have found a way to outright ignore to the point where it’s costing me my relationships. The amount of resentment people have for me and my behavior is crippling me more than the neurodivergence that’s causing it…
This was exactly the type of dirty trick I would expect from a hexbear tankie. Never acting in good faith…
Libs getting ready for next Halloween.