COMPETITIVE SHITTING, made real........
r/oldhagfashion was a really fun one!
And they really don't stop comin, eh? Corporate social media sites in general keep shooting themselves in the foot lately lmao, I think we're about on track for a massive revolution in how the internet landscape looks and works sometime soon. Or, that's what I hope anyways :x
I've already been enjoying posting to Lemmy/etc much more than I ever did Reddit.
Reddit always felt so set-in-stone and unchanging to the point that it made me feel like I arrived "late" to the party even though my first Reddit account was in I think 2015. Once somebody claimed a subreddit with an easy-to-remember name that was largely it, and if you disagreed with their moderating style you had to suck it up or make your own with a more obtuse name.
With Lemmy since everything's decentralized it feels much more... I guess open? If someone makes a !gamedev community that has iffy moderation issues or whatnot, I or someone else can also make a !gamedev comm on another instance without it being a problem at all.
The Reddit thing thus far seems many times more fervent than anything that happened to Twitter (I've been on and off fedi since 2017 and saw tons of migration waves from Twitter and other corpo sites), so hopefully it'll be different? Definitely seems to at least in part be because of the stark cultural difference between Twitter and Reddit at least in terms of how people directly interact with the service itself, like the whole thing with it being common to delete your old Reddit acc and start again every so often, or having multiple Reddit accounts to segment things off also being more common than on Twitter (I think I have/had like 4 Reddit accounts I hop onto every so often, personally?), but on Twitter your account is treated as more of a "permanent" and unmoving thing instead.
Time to further pester my friends who "can't leave" because they, in essence, can't be assed to try anything else
It's like this whole nasty ass self-perpetuating cycle with social media, people will complain about not liking Twitter/etc, you show them tons of alternatives, and then they back up and go "no, no. I like Twitter just fine" or will refuse to even attempt anything else because it's not 1:1 the perfect image of their ideal service they pictured in their mind. So things get worse because they don't leave, but their refusal to try, to even merely attempt using something else alongside Twitter and reminding their followers that they're there too, it entrenches them further
I think I remember Elon saying he wanted to turn Twitter into "the everything website", but frankly that's just putting words to what Twitter already has been for years now. It's been pushed to be the "everything website" for so long now that people convinced themselves and thus others that there's little use to using something else. I remember on multiple occasions being told directly that if I want to post my art online but don't want to use Twitter, that I should just not even bother because nobody uses anything else, at least not for the initial content discovery, which genuinely discouraged me initially and I think that cloud is still hanging over my head somewhat.
I don't use the big generalistic Matrix channel so I can't say, but I'm in a smattering of groups for programming topics I'm interested in like Godot and they're really nice.
There's Matrix, which is federated (diff protocol than ActivityPub, though). It seems decentlly active but atm maybe one of those things where you need to already know people who use it to be able to find the good stuff, because I'm struggling to find much of anything I like (but I've also been dodging the larger groups because I'm nervous lmao)
There's also XMPP or Jabber as it used to be called, which is better for 1-on-1 type conversations, but group chats are also a thing there.
Fedora! Have been super not a fan of Windows for years now so I avoid it hardcore when I can.
Linux in general is a lot easier to set up programming environments on, and also just generally it's a lot more flexible when it comes to customization, which is definitely important when you're a big picky bitchbaby like I am.
Fedora specifically I like because there's something I just really like about RHEL-related distros (to the point that i use Rocky Linux on my server also). They feel really polished and dnf is probably my favourite package manager of all the ones I've tried so far. I do have a few issues with it, and I miss having access to the AUR when I used various Arch-baseds over the years, but all in all I'm very happy with it and I don't see myself switching distros for desktop use any time soon.
I honestly almost started my own instance a while back, I was looking at kbin and the far more obscure lotide. I opted not to though because I already run an Akkoma instance and I don't wanna take on the load of having to maintain and moderate more fedi instances lol