If you give that response, the other commenter vaporizes. Fascinating!
Why is nobody able to admit when someone has a point anymore? Learning and collaboration should be the point of the internet.
Exactly. As an iphone user (and linux sysadmin, compartmentalization is not that hard), i agree with your criticisms of apple most of the time. They just make the better phone IMHO, and I say that as a nexus 4, nexus 6p, pixel XL, oneplus 7 pro, and oneplus 9 pro user. Yes i used custom roms, no I do not have the patience to treat my phone as a linux project anymore.
I regularly have android users go out of their way to try and fight me over this, and they always claim I must not have used android. It’s annoying to field over and over.
Why I left Startrek.website, created TenForward, and the admin abuse I've suffered from ST.W since then
As the co-owner of another instance, this kind of admin/mod behavior is distressingly common. I get that administration is hard, but I swear a lot of moderators are addicted to the kind of drama they are supposed to be preventing.
If you ever need a bit of a safe haven in the future pawb.social is the instance we run, and having followed your content for quite a while back on risa and now on tenforward I can say nothing you post has ever been a problem with our rules thus far.
I really do hope some of this dies down for your sake!
Correct! to give a bit of background while I wait for backups...
last night we had what appears to be an out of memory error. Our cloudflare tunnels broke around the same time that the internet went out (probably related), and we also didn't have our nodes configured to keep some ram reserved to allow kubernetes to keep running. Additionally, we still only had 1 replica of the data for furry.engineer and pawb.fun that we were still building/downloading from other instances (mostly cached images).
so it was the perfect storm. node 1 runs out of memory and basically crashes, node 2 then tries to pick up the services that are suddenly offline, immediately causing it to run out of memory and crash. There's only one copy of the data, so nothing offline to check for corruption against. all the storage with 2 replicas was unaffected.
I've done an announcement post on the telegram channel to try and keep people appraised, but this restore is going to take another couple hours probably because I'm trying not to repeat my mistakes by setting things to 1 replica or skipping backups for expediency. My impatience pretty directly caused this issue.
I have long given up on the thought if getting everyone to accept me. I grew up in texas. I am not trans, but I have chosen to start presenting more feminine.
This will be a very fun christmas when I visit because I have gotten to the point of no longer valuing any of that negativity. It turns out when you are an adult you can just say “that’s a shit opinion you shouldn’t share” and move on!
It’s especially effective if you don’t even let it affect your tone. Being cheerful and being myself seems to infuriate my mother in a way that makes her show her ass, so I’ll just let her do that.