You're right. I probably phrased that a bit poorly, especially with respect to "do ___ before ___." The point I was trying to get across is that this push for self-improvement is often extrinsic and possibly unnecessary.
If chasing money or muscles (or whatever) is something that genuinely excites you, then by all means do that. But if you're doing it because others tell you that's what you need to find contentment, then I just want people to know there is another path.
DeepSeek handled it well.