Can't they discover the world beyond? Weren't they humans; don't they have the mind to move on and focus on something else, since trauma and grief will run its course, sooner or later, and not just haunt the living?
If I were a ghost, I'd be tired of acting like one... even if I was murdered or otherwise died untimely
With the exception of Casper the Ghost, I don't think I've seen the alternative take on it
This presupposes ghosts do exist, though I believe ye skeptics would tell me no, which, alright, you win the argument
Idk, maybe like all U.Sians traditions, this was an Old-World British thing Americans preserved, since it's a more direct term of the English language, more direct than Day then Month
so unless it's a special day, if not holiday, for U.Sians like 4th of July, by default, Month then Day