actaastron

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[–] actaastron@reddthat.com 5 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I don't use Amazon anymore and have been using eBay for odds and ends, filtering by UK only, but recently I've had 2 items delivered from/by Shein. Any ideas what that's all about?

[–] actaastron@reddthat.com 1 points 2 months ago

Thanks, if they sprout I'll keep a couple then

[–] actaastron@reddthat.com 1 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I put some chilli seeds in yesterday, was planning 1 per pot about the size of yours but could I get away with 2 perhaps?

[–] actaastron@reddthat.com 2 points 2 months ago

FWIW I've been using Ubuntu desktop with CasaOS for a couple of months now to host Nextcloud, Jellfin, Immich and a few other bits and bobs with absolutely no issues at all so far!

[–] actaastron@reddthat.com 2 points 2 months ago

Hehe, software developer here... there are several of us at my work place!

[–] actaastron@reddthat.com 5 points 3 months ago

Ah yes, I forgot about the exhaustion! When I'm motivated I'm on fire and can go all day but when I'm in a lull just getting some tools out of the cupboard feels like too much.

It's funny what the barriers can be as well, like getting the tools could feel like a massive pain, but once I've got them the enthusiasm comes back and I'm on my way again. Sometimes I have to sit and try to work out what the blocker is and make that one small task the priority.

Sorting stuff out is a big job, it'll feel so good when it's all done!

[–] actaastron@reddthat.com 22 points 3 months ago (3 children)

I used to start projects, get overwhelmed then give up and start a new one (mostly home renovation stuff).

Since diagnosis I've learned to break things right down as you suggest and fully complete each task before moving on.

For example I'm decorating my dining room and won't move onto the next wall until the previous one is finished. In fact one wall has a couple of alcoves which are a bit fiddly, so for that one I've broken it down even smaller to finish one alcove before moving onto the next.

I'm half way through one of them (no progress/motivation since Christmas) and currently more interested in garden related things, but in the mean time the room is still functional with just one iffy looking bit instead of it looking like a building site!

I used to beat myself up for not being able to finish things, so it's nice to finally be able to relax and ride those waves!

[–] actaastron@reddthat.com 6 points 3 months ago (2 children)

There's also Mensinator which I've been using for basic period tracking. No tracking, European and built by women.

[–] actaastron@reddthat.com 6 points 3 months ago

posteo going well for me too!

[–] actaastron@reddthat.com 10 points 3 months ago

Despite SMS not being secure I'm determined to stop using WhatsApp and haven't installed it on my new phone. My old phone has WhatsApp business with an auto reply saying to contact me on signal or send a text. Granted I don't have a huge contacts list but 4 people have started using Signal and the rest send a text, so this is good news in my book.

[–] actaastron@reddthat.com 3 points 3 months ago

This is such a good idea, thanks for sharing!

[–] actaastron@reddthat.com 4 points 3 months ago

Waiting for my data export to come through from Amazon then will be deleting my account. Facebook, Insta and WhatsApp already gone then it's just Google to deal with!

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