And I am replying from a completely different instance. Isn't the Fediverse great? (Even though I also noticed that comments from others on my own posts do not show up in my own instance)
WomboCombo
joined 2 years ago
I found this curated list: https://github.com/maltfield/awesome-lemmy-instances
It also has a link to a blogpost on "how to find lemmy communities/instances" but it basically says: use https://browse.feddit.de..
I have the same behavior on some communities but on some not. This post from 2 weeks ago says its a known bug and as long as you have the "Subscribe Pending" button it should count the same as being subscribed.