WalrusDragonOnABike

Na, tests were too much fun to waste on cheating.

"Doesn't" is in my sentence, which is kinda close?

Not sure what you mean. I am saying I enjoy hearing other people enjoying their music when on the trail.

Is his niece Chelsea Manning or someone like that?

The only time I experienced a sensitivity to the cold was during a short period where I think I was a little anemic. Estrogen has definitely made me more sensitive, but I such a ridiculous starting point that I still have cold tolerance. Funnily, a cis person brought up how me (and two others who were in shorts+Tshirt) were warm because of T (I hadn't come out to her yet).

She’ll also say things like not to care what other people think

She kinda often boils it down to “Do you think if you had tits and a vagina you’d really be that much happier?”

I'm pretty sure I used to basically be in that camp. I never would have said that to another person because its obviously rude. But when finding out people are trans, that was my sort of reaction. In my case, it was clearly cope. I don't think there's much, if anything, you could have said to change my mind directly since my reason for believing them was based solely on their ability to keep the thoughts away from myself. The only thing that really has convinced my bodily changes just make me baseline happier is experiencing it (granted, no bottom surgery). 🤷‍♀️

I'm still in "idc about socially transitioning" but given transphobia is a thing, being able to present in public in ways I'd like to occasionally without worried about how others behave would be nice (granted, a lot of people's behavior around women could be better too...)

Agreed. But I think just knowing others feel the same, some of whom are willing to even do surgery to reach their goal, can be comforting and make one feel less alone.

Someday i had the thougth that the existence of trans people implies that there must be a emotion/feeling or way of knowing your own gender.

I've seen multiple of trans people say things along the lines of "I decided I was a girl a few years after starting HRT and everyone was already calling me one." Guess they could just be agender specifically.

Anyways, I also find the whole topic of gender confusing, so can't help you too much with figuring out the answer to that (I've been in these communities for a the last few years (after my egg cracked) and frequently interacted with the community for a couple years before that.

Ultimately, I don't think it really matters what a gender is though to determine what steps you can take to be happier regardless of your gender (or lack thereof). I certainly heard that idea before, but it still took me a while to really internalize it.

(maybe go for both just so i dont need to decide, its magic after all)

Both is an option without magic. Salmacian and penile preserving vaginoplasty are terms associated with it. Not gonna be fully functional for both though - gotta resort to magic for that.

Share how you feel and invite others to join in who feel the same? Unfortunately, the agender communities on the fediverse are dead, but plenty are spread throughout the fediverse.

Any specific ways you would prefer your body to be or others to see you assuming you could just magically have your body be a specific way or society was welcoming to seeing you that way (ie: a sexless body or people just accepting that you have no gender are both options)?