Imma be honest, you actually made being a billionaire sound cool.
I don't think I am understanding the whole thing. Your title of post says you got banned for screen name honoring dead friend. But then in your summary you said you got banned "for no reason."
Did they they tell you it was for your screen name?
fediverse needs no voting
I understand the mods frustation, even tho in this case it does seem extreme. I actually saw a person admit that they were fine getting banned for downvoting because there would be a "record" of them disagreeing with everything the community said. So some people are legit doing it on purpose to get in the logs.
Lemmy, man... lol Some here take this shit way too seriously.
i have a viewpoint, not an agenda.
But on Lemmy, that's a rare thing. Most have an agenda.
Nah, feel free to downvote. But to go into that same community and just downvote every single post is not cool. Not only that, some people go to that same community every day to keep downvoting every single post. Regardless of content. And some, in my personal case, go to other comms I run and do the same thing, even tho they are totally unrelated posts and unrelated subject manner.
I'm not saying you did that, but it's happening so much, that you probably just got caught up in it. If you really want to get back into those comms, email the mod.
I feel like sending a PM would have been a more decent and human thing to do.
I used to think that, too. But I sent a PM to someone about this very subject once because I didn't wanna ban them. He replied that PM'ing him was one of the most pathetic things he'd ever seen in his life and said I was an idiot. Maybe a one-off.
Ok, so another person was giving me issues and stalking me and downvoting everything I posted (I'm not well-loved on Lemmy haha), I PM'd them and said I didn't wanna ban them, but downvoting across all my comms was in bad taste. He told me to fuck off and that he could downvote anything he wanted to.
Lesson learned. Way too many people on Lemmy who don't like your attitude or views, are freakin crazy. As in stalk you crazy. One person, whom I won't name (and admin here knows their name!), would regularly write to admins with pages of "proof" about how terrible I am for Lemmy. And why the outrage? I voted third party in the election. LMAO
Now I have no problem banning problem children without notice. The crazy on Lemmy is a whole 'nother level of crazy. lol
What I don't get, is why the serial downvoting? If ya don't like a community, just block it. But some refuse to block and just go in and downvote every single post. It's happening more and more.
Not saying OP did that, but it's happening. And we can see it happening because as mods, we are able to see the names of downvoters. Other people in this thread are noticing the same thing, so it's not just me saying that.
You can find examples of people on each ‘side’ being assholes
Very true!
I heard re-orienting after retirement isn’t always easy.
Way way harder than I thought. A month in I felt guilty about feeling weird. I mean, hey, I get a pension for rest of my life. I'm still young (early 50's), fit and healthy. This should be awesome! I can shitpost on Lemmy all day!
But ugh, I miss the kids, co-workers, etc. I have an active social life, but it's not the same as having good solid co-workers going thru the trenches with ya. I have my own business now, so that's relieved some of the weirdness of not working, so we'll see.
I would never in a million years thought being retired would feel weird. But yep, it's strange till ya find your footing.
I like piefed and think it's a great idea.