I agree. My anger with him is that he made no effort, except for a “what’s up” when he walked in. Immediately I felt a certain kind of way. He made no effort to even say “hello” or even introduce himself to me. What kind of man is that? I’m supposed to be so close to her, and surely she would have mentioned me to him. But it became clear right away that he had no intention of even knowing my fucking name. I shouldn’t have to be the one that comes up to him and push my way to tell him “I’m Jessica, it’s so nice to meet you”. He had no intention of meeting me, so I have no intention of ever meeting or seeing him again.
I know that this sounds one-sided or otherwise me being stand off-ish with him—and I am. She would have introduced me to him if I was important to her. But clearly I am not as important of a part of her life as I once thought.
Fuck this. What a way to meetup after being apart for more than a month. I’d figure she would want to sit somewhat near me, but she chose her seat that was far away from me. Again, this sounds like poor me, and maybe it is, but I’m really hurt rn.
A censure? We’d be lucky if he doesn’t get celebrated for it.