Outlier1031

joined 2 years ago
[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago

News flash: most couples have zero in common with each other. Common interests are great and all, but they don't make a relationships. Shared experiences and building interests together is really what counts. I would say there is probably a good reason why this bar guy and his friend are not together, despite how much they have in common. There's also the societal notion that women and men can't just be friends which is completely not true. Don't get in your head about this.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Thanks I did it and scored 159 so i think maybe a proper diagnoses is in order

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 years ago (16 children)

Anyone got a recommendation for a place that does testing for a possible adult autism diagnosis? Have always felt there was something different about me and struggled to connect with people and make and keep friendships and keen to know if the cause is in fact something like autism.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Other people are not you. People learn at different rates. Maybe they have a learning disability that you don't know about or maybe they struggle with anxiety and really slow because they are nervous. Also it's a new job for them so it's understandable that they have to get used to a new way of doing things. Patience and empathy are what's required here.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Bboi looks like he is 100% belting out the chorus in a video for a early 90's power ballad

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

I have fond memories of watching first run simpsons on my older brothers little tv in his bedroom while tucking in to my looney tunes microwave meal that my mum would make when I was being fussy. the Daffy duck spaghetti and meatballs and bugs bunny chicken nuggs were my favourites

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

Or 3 people who wet their pants

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I always laugh at the serving suggestion on like leggo's tortellini, ravioli extra. Serves 4 apparently. I assume that is children and not a grown-arse man

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 years ago

Man I hate catastrophising so much. Current thoughts: 'i'm not going to get a new job' 'the situation at my current job is going to explode' 'i'm going to get fired' 'yes i now have money in savings but it wont be enough' 'nothing good is going to come my way' and so on and on. I'm sorry y'all I feel like such a broken record with my anxiety musings. Even though i've been in similar situations before and it's always worked out, my brain is like 'not this time, pal. this is the one where you're gonna get fucked over'.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

I don't want to but one of my earlier posts today mentions some issues i'm having at work and I'm just a bit done with the all the stress of it. Ideally i'd like to have something to go to before I resign. And I'm worried about how i'm going to juggle having to do phone interviews or actually go to interviews if I'm working all the time and can't call in sick unless my shift is covered.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

I don't think I'll be able to make it anyway, no one can cover the rest of my shift.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Got a call for in person interview for one of the jobs I applied for which is great. But now begins the stress of trying to get my shift covered and as i'm potentially going to the interview straight from work dressing in a way that doesn't give the away i might be having and interview while also dressing appropriately for the interview. Also the nature of my job means that I can't just call in sick without my shift being covered. Should i just quit my job and wait for after then to attend interviews?

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