JayDee

joined 2 years ago
[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

I read his comment, and I disagree that it was explicitly ragebait. It was making a point attempting to bring women's safety to the forefront of discussion (it succeeded but enflamed too much to be useful).

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I don't think it's the phrasing. You would need an entirely different question to not elicit the response we saw. It wasn't that the question that was asked that angered people, it was that women consistently chose the bear. this question would have been a nothing burger otherwise. At the same time, though, the question was pitched because the author already knew what the answer would be. They understood how frequently unknown men pose a threat to women.

What this response from many men the shows is that most dudes are still not ready to talk about just how much more dangerous the world is for women at a baseline measurement - quite explicitly because of predatory dudes.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

I AM BULLET PROOF

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

A quarter is one half of one half. Makes perfect sense.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Bullets are leftist! /s

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I'm the opposite. Any time I hear the 'Caroline' I get aliitle frustrated.

'Home Alabama' forever and always.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

If you have a solidarity network in your city, join it and help them however you are able.

If you don't have a solidarity network where you are, consider attempting to form one.

The reason this kind of thing can happen unchallenged is because landlords know they can drag legal battles out in court with no other repercussions for a long time. Don't let them think that. Get involved, get organized.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

Had a period of mental breakdown where I concluded that there was something either psychologically wrong or ideologically wrong with myself. Started questioning most of my thoughts and what I could trust. Slowly built out political views I felt aligned with my core values.

A trust of friends and chosen family were the foundation. That built out into being politically anti-authoritarian and anti-fascist. Gradually turned into believing Marx's proposed issues with capitalist society and some of Foucault's teachings about resisting authority (not so much their other stuff).

I eventually became closer friends with a punk and have gotten to hear of anarchism throughout history and the current anarchist influences in various other movements.

My views of anarchism are still mostly vague. I'm still focusing more on becoming a more functional person and growing the communities I'm apart of, so more thorough research and understanding takes a backseat for now.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Bruh drafting up the evac plans is gonna be a nightmare. And you best memorize your floor's plan or you're gonna be running a maze for your life.

It's gonna turn out this whole fucking thing's just a bunch of open floor plans with my luck.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

~~I could give that korok some loads to bear~~

~ᴳᵒᵈ~ ~ᴵ~ ~ʷᵃⁿⁿᵃ~ ~ᶠᵘᶜᵏⁱⁿᵍ~ ~ᵈⁱᵉ~ ~ⁿᵒʷ~

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

What a pretty old senior pup! look at those eyes, they're like caramel drops.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think it's to have the conversation with those close to us that felt offended in a measured, methodical fashion. I find that it often seems completely foreign for some of the guys I've talked to put themselves into someone else's shoes.

It is a slog quite often, and I think that there is some kind of training out there for having these kinds of conversations.

As always, it's about talking to these people without getting them offended. I agree with other leftists that it's absolutely exhausting - it honestly feels like some of these dudes want nothing but to feel like the victim of the situation sometimes. I still try and talk them through it when I can.

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