Ifera

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 days ago

Both points are true. Honestly, I pirate stuff wildly, but donate to the authors or buy their stuff and donate it to my local library if I like it enough.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Odd, it is not loading for me

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Absolutely based take, I applaud you and your nuance, darling.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (6 children)

Kinda funny how a lot of people downvote and denounce AI religiously for some things and not for others.

For me, this pic is just good fun.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

I wasn't /s

But seriously, it is far easier being on the outside, pointing and casting blame, but for us old enough to remember all the people who were blackballed, run out of the business, and even murdered for exposing sexual abuse, it is hard to tell.

And on top of that, there are cases where a third party has exposed the abuse, to which both the victim and perpetrator deny the accusations, and it just ends up terribly for the whistleblower.

Yet, back to the point, we're on ~~reddit~~ lemmy, where nuance goes to die.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Allegedly, he was aware of Harvey Weinstein's abuse, at least according to Rose McGowan. And since a lot of people are reactionary as fuck, since she accused him of being aware, then they act and behave as if he was undoubtedly aware and complicit in it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I fully agree with that first half of the statement, and seeing women as nothing but things, incapable of evil, of plotting, murdering, mass murdering or any other distasteful thing.

But then on the next few lines you show similar views with collective responsibility, on how straight men have a terrible history, and that we're doing far too little to grow out of.

People are not monolithic, and while sure, you can state statistics, judging everyone for the crimes of many or few they share characteristics out of their control with, is a very fucked up thing.

Edit: The argument about women being incapable of things should also some of the fucking amazing things women can do, and achievements that history and sexism have tried and often succeed at burying. Honestly, humans are both magnificent and horrifying, no matter what gender they are.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Or as if gay porn wasn't a thing. It is funny when you realize how anti-men people do mental gymnastics for this kind of stuff, yet on the same breath state that sex work is real work, when pointed at OF "models", or anything that is lucrative for women.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Odd, none of the pics you post load for me, even tried with a browser instead of Sync, and can't get them to load

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

It actually works for some, but not for the reasons people think it does.. If there is going to be a promotion, happy, or at least happy looking people are far most likely to get it, so they can motivate others. In most cases, this selection is based on internal biases rather than explicit requirements, but there are many people in power who actually consider it as a factor.

Another one is the impostor syndrome, those techniques make you believe you deserve anything good coming your way, and think yourself responsible for anything positive that happens in your life, so just like religion, if you got it it is thanks to you for believing in that higher power, and if you didn't, it is beecause it wasn't the time, your deity of choice has something better waiting for you, because ultimately it wasn't going to be good for you, or because you didn't pray/believe/manifest it good enough.

They try to cover self doubt with a bandaid and confirmation bias, which can work, and make the people who follow those tenants more secure, more willing to take risks, and more easygoing, but also makes them far more prone to mistakes and being too stubborn.

For the most part, keeping a happy face works just the same, and people who believe this things are so delusional, multiple people at work told me it was because of my change in attitude that I won a raffle, when that change in attitude was not because of that bullshit, but because I had given up and was already looking for a new job, and completely stopped doing work stuff on my free time just to keep up.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Not everything that you don't like is AI, this is just "shitty photoshop" making it feel like it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Because some people keep dragging them from Reddit to here

 

A plain, black shirt, with text that reads "If being gay was a choice, I'd choose to be gayer"

 

I want some help, according to what I did, this sauce seems to work but, from what I read, it seems like it shouldn't and I want to understand why it worked so I can duplicate the process.

I made some spicy chicken and fried it, recipe included sliced chichen breasts, seasonings and mayo, to keep it from drying out. Then when cooked, tossed them in a pot, added more mayo, flour, a bit of Red Oil, and milk.

Added some LKK chilli sauce, ginger, scallions and stirred. That chicken tasted glorious, but according to what I read, it should be curdling, not creamy.

In your opinion, Would this work or just be an abomination?

 

Does anyone know what this one is about?

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For real (lemmy.world)
 
 

She is very ill, and might not make it through the night, so I thought a picture of her on a happy day would cheer me up, and perhaps others.

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