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Chronic Illness

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A community/support group for chronically ill people. While anyone is welcome, our number one priority is keeping this a safe space for chronically ill people.

This is a support group, not a place for people to spout their opinions on disability.

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  1. Be excellent to each other

  2. Absolutely no ableism. This includes harmful stereotypes: lazy/freeloaders etc

  3. No quackery. Does an up-to date major review in a big journal or a major government guideline come to the conclusion you’re claiming is fact? No? Then don’t claim it’s fact. This applies to potential treatments and disease mechanisms.

  4. No denialism or minimisation This applies challenges faced by chronically ill people.

  5. No psychosomatising psychosomatisation is a tool used by insurance companies and governments to blame physical illnesses on mental problems, and thereby saving money by not paying benefits. There is no concrete proof psychosomatic or functional disease exists with the vast majority of historical diagnoses turning out to be biomedical illnesses medicine has not discovered yet. Psychosomatics is rooted in misogyny, and consisted up until very recently of blaming women’s health complaints on “hysteria”.

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I would rather you help me with a small task than waste 20 minutes praying for me to have been born with a different genome

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

"Let me know if you need anything"

Well I could do with some help with the basics like cleaning. Hello? Hello? Oh they are already gone and have deleted my number. Cool cool.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago

And then they have the gall to shame you when they see your house.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I wonder: Is there a site that hosts universal wish lists? I think everyone should have one. It’d be great if it’s not just stuff to buy, but also to do or say, etc.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I’m not sure that would be popular enough to be helpful. Maybe just mention what you need help for or want people not to say on your social media?