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Like in a dehumanizing manner. I want to go by it/they/them but I'm scared I won't be able to handle it if someone does that.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

same as when someone calls me anything in a mean way— quiet smoldering resentment and elaborate years-long revenge plots that end in their untimely death, from natural causes as far as the coroner can tell

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

That's just kinky

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

But what are you?

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Find peace in yourself and fuck what anyone else thinks.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Call them out on being an asshole if you can get away with it.

If the situation is less than safe, maybe introduce yourself with they/them instead of it/they/them. Not ideal but at least if there are bystanders around there's more chance that they'd feel okay calling out the person using "it" in a snarky way.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

You could lightly stab them.