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[–] [email protected] 56 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Nah, you don’t get to define someone’s gender like that fuck off

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I was very much hoping that this was like "Skeletor is a bad guy and is saying this thing which is implicitly wrong and harmful"

Edit: nope, her post history is a fucking trash fire. She truly believes this.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Femboy is a unique gender expression, not a symptom of denial

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

Is this meme not supposed to give good advice?

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What a shit post lmao

...unless you're serious, in which case, we should consider humanity's tendency to categorize things. Gender expression and identify are very much bimodal and not binary.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The whole comment history is gender essentialism.

I tried on my girlfriend's jeans in high school. Guess I'm a woman now 🤷

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Yeah lmao. They already gave up the game in another comment here.

...I tried my girlfriends jeans on my high school because I am a woman. We are not the same :3

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

Because of course, you know better than them. You know better than everyone and if anyone thinks otherwise, they're wrong. /s

Going up to a person and telling them "Hey, you're fat", "Hey, you're white" or "Hey, you're trans", is rude, dumb and a sign that you might be autistic or a moron.

Sure, some femboys do grow older and realize they were trans all along, and some don't. I am a bit fluid, but when I was young, I could have been considered a femboy, if that had been considered a thing back then. Looking pretty, androgynous, wearing gender neutral or mixing it up some days was a lot of fun, but FOR ME it was a phase. I enjoyed it when I was young, but it is no longer my thing, because people are fluid. For others it is not a phase, and they genuinely enjoy being femboys, for some others it is the beginning of a self realization journey.

Point is, let people be who they are, your experience is not the same as everyone else's. And I have seen your other "meme" and your comments, and you are surprisingly quick to dismiss other gender identities, and on the same breath say that trans women are not real women.

You got some deep seated issues, darling. Seek help, and I don't mean it as an insult, I say it because I really think you could benefit from it.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

That's definitely some evil bullshit Skeletor would say

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Fellas, do i need to be trans to feel cute in a dress?

[–] [email protected] -4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Being trans is not a choice, if you feel cute in a dress you are more than likely trans, whether you like it or not.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Jesus christ can you just not force your perceived gender on people? They get to choose whether they are or arent trans

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Being trans is not a choice you stupid bigot, when you're trans you're trans whether you like it or not.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I find it funny that you are calling me a bigot

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This person is almost definitely a very dedicated troll who is trying to make all trans people look bad. I've interacted with them before, they were basically spewing this same bullshit. At the very least, they are transmed and believe that woman are only women if they look and act fem 100% of the time.

Best to simply block and move on.

[–] [email protected] -4 points 1 year ago

The pickme is back.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

This is satire right?