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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I know you're talking about my first and second posts on this thread. My first post offered a tentative questioning of this etymology (with a citation), and my second post mirrored the language used by a more thorough analysis that I had subsequently read. My browser history corroborates that and shows that your argument that I went scrambling for additional sources only after being challenged is nonsense.

I don't like you guys

Can't win em all. You can block me if you like. I'll block you once we wrap up our current pleasant interaction and that way we can both get on with our miserable lives.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

My first post offered a tentative questioning of this etymology (with a citation)

Wikipedia

JFL at your flowery academic jargon. Yeah tbh that was absolutely fine, I didn't care about it until...

second post mirrored the language used by a more thorough analysis that I had subsequently read

"bro its fine that i chose not to think before i was pompous and arrogant, I was just copying the tone of someone else"

Think for yourself. Your tone was rude and uncalled for, its that simple.

My browser history corroborates that and shows that your argument that I went scrambling for additional sources

Think about how ridiculous you look to anyone who doesn't live in your head.

1st post: Its wrong because wikipedia. (thats fine, I don't care)

2nd post: Yeah its totally wrong and muh nonsense because my 20s of googling refutes this. (no other sources given in the post)

Regardless of what research you did personally, this is an arrogant white pseudointellectual being rudely dismissive of a brown person's cultural lore based off of a surface level reading of wikipedia.

As stated earlier, my main grievance with your post was your dismissive tone and arrogance. Any sort of good faith or benefit of the doubt towards you goes right out the window due to it.

And I'm glad that in the end, you recognized that you perhaps had used language flippantly. I don't care whether you feel bad or not, just do better.

I'll block you once we wrap up our current pleasant interaction and that way we can both get on with our miserable lives.

Thank you for bestowing upon me this great honor. I have a strong distaste for instructors who use their knowledge to arrogantly belittle and beat other people over the head, figuratively and literally.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

As stated earlier, my main grievance with your post was your dismissive tone and arrogance. Any sort of good faith or benefit of the doubt towards you goes right out the window due to it.

Nah, you're just grinding an axe under this pretext.

Regardless of what research you did personally, this is an arrogant white pseudointellectual being rudely dismissive of a brown person's cultural lore based off of a surface level reading of wikipedia

This is internally incoherent. It wasn't Wikipedia that informed my view of it being nonsense, but reading what actual members of the culture of origin described it as, that being "ridiculous", "laughable". Next time I'm use more aseptic language and so you'll have to pivot to complaining that I'm talking too much like a fancylad.

You can't even decide if you think me citing Wikipedia originally is an object of scorn (your first point) or actually okay (your second). It's as if the content of what you're saying doesn't matter so long as you can pivot to trying to dunk on me. Well very good we're all impressed.

arrogantly belittle and beat other people over the head, figuratively and literally.

None of which happened here, apart from your ham-handed efforts at doing so. Am I belittling and beating the Facebook poster over the head? What do you think he thinks about the matter? I'm really straining at who is supposed to be the victim of my tone here. Surely someone has to have been wronged in or to justify this level of tone policing.

Think about how ridiculous you look to anyone who doesn't live in your head.

That's right, multiple people have gone out of their way in this thread to tell me about how much of a normal one I am having.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Nah, you're just grinding an axe under this pretext.

Think what you want, your language was dismissive and arrogant, such an approach throws any benefit of the doubt towards its user out the window.

This is internally incoherent. It wasn't Wikipedia that informed my view of it being nonsense,

That wasn't my argument. My argument isn't that you are X objectively, but you do indeed subjectively come off as X to someone just reading your first 2 posts.

but reading what actual members of the culture of origin described it as, that being "ridiculous", "laughable"

Just because they did doesn't mean you can too. You can cite that they said so, but as a white you have no excuse to be condescending as such.

Next time I'm use more aseptic language...

Proper sentence construction comes first.

You can't even decide if you think me citing Wikipedia originally is an object of scorn (your first point) or actually okay (your second).

Which comment did I originally reply to? The one where you cited wikipedia or the second one where you were rude? The fact that you were calling cultural lore nonsense based on what seemed to be nothing but wikipedia skimming is ridiculous in totality.

It's as if the content of what you're saying doesn't matter so long as you can pivot to trying to dunk on me.

Fujitsu LPF-D711.

None of which happened here, apart from your ham-handed efforts at doing so.

... and your effete attempts at condescension and dismissal? My hog is currently in my hand at the moment so touche.

Am I belittling and beating the Facebook poster over the head? What do you think he thinks about the matter?

Individualism. I don't care whether this user in particular is in the room at the current moment, its rude to call cultural lore "nonsense" as an outsider belonging to a group of people who have an ongoing history of colonization.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Proper sentence construction comes first.

Oh man, we're at the "you made a typo" stage of internet discourse. I should just drop a redditbro emoji and ride off into the sunset hootin and hollerin.

. I don't care whether this user in particular is in the room at the current moment, its rude to call cultural lore "nonsense" as an outsider belonging to a group of people who have an ongoing history of colonization.

Gonna have to disagree with you there. The folk etymology of picnic is nonsense, and I feel no compunctions about saying that in a discussion online about etymologies. Now if someone I know in person repeats that etymology as a fact, they are in fact entitled to a more gentle correction, doubly so if they come from the marginalized group relevant to the etymology. Even if it's someone I'm interacting with online, I'd feel obligated to be more conciliatory, which is why I haven't called you any number of unkind things.

But I'm not going to accept your tone policing like you're some kind of Lorax speaking for someone who isn't present, as though I've poopooed some touchstone of Coptic culture and not some random factiod the dude might have seen online. For one it smacks of racist paternalism.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Oh man, we're at the "you made a typo" stage of internet discourse.

You're the one who made a grammatical mistake when making an allusion to "aseptic language", it was too good to let slide.

Gonna have to disagree with you there. The folk etymology of picnic is nonsense, and I feel no compunctions about saying that in a discussion online about etymologies. Now if someone I know in person repeats that etymology as a fact, they are in fact entitled to a more gentle correction, doubly so if they come from the marginalized group in relevant to the etymology. Even if it's someone I'm interacting with online, I'd feel obligated to be more conciliatory.

Why are you so arrogant? What gives you the authority, intellectual or otherwise, to describe folk etymology as "nonsense", or to decree whether someone is "entitled to a more gentle correction"?

This is pure debate perversion because now we're talking about muh entymology when it's really about you being rude and condescending. Being correct about something is no excuse to be an asshole. This is why I don't like you white academics.

But I'm not going to accept your tone policing like you're some kind of Lorax speaking for someone who isn't present

Individualism again. It's not about any singular person, it's about you crackers not being so arrogant and dismissive towards cultural lore. You can say that something is factually right or wrong, but being an asshole about it is uncalled for. And yes I am tone policing because of your behaviour.

It's not your culture so do be respectful about "correcting" it as a white, or do kindly shut up.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

What gives you the authority, intellectual or otherwise, to describe folk etymology as "nonsense", or to decree whether someone is "entitled to a more gentle correction"?

I don't need authority to decide what an appropriate mode of interaction in various settings is. The same way you don't need to be invested by any authority to decide you're the scourge of the western academic. You can just do that and weird everyone out in the process.

And as we've already established, I was mirroring what members of the actual culture of origin described it as.

Being correct about something is no excuse to be an asshole. This is why I don't like you white academics.

Who was I an asshole to?

It's not your culture so do be respectful about "correcting" it as a white, or do kindly shut up.

I will, as ever, do what I think is best.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Who was I an asshole to?

Individualism yet again.

decide what an appropriate mode of interaction in various settings is.

Ok so you switched from chauvinistically making normative statements about folk entymology being objectively "nonsense", to, when asked about what "authority" you have to make such arrogant claims, "that's just how I talk in this setting bro".

The same way you don't need to be invested by any authority to decide you're the scourge of the western academic.

That's too grandiose, I'm not unky ted. And not "western academics" in general JFL reading comprehension not found.

You can just do that and weird everyone out in the process.

Being a normie is overrated.

I was mirroring what members of the actual culture of origin described it as.

You, as a white person, only get to cite their descriptions as such and nothing more. We addressed this earlier.

"I will, as ever, continue being a rude, condescending cracker."

Ok.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

You, as a white person, only get to cite their descriptions as such and nothing more. We addressed this earlier.

And yet, I did otherwise.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Aaaand now we're going to go into more debate perversion about the definition of proper citation methods and timelines to avoid the fact that your 2nd post was literally just you calling the lore "nonsense" without any such descriptive receipts included within. Good job buddy boyo, way to weasel your way out of this one.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I'd be very interested to know what constitutes your definition of lore, actually.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

"akshually, lets feed my debate perversion by nitpicking the definition of muh lore so I can bog everything down with my academic convolutions and word games to move further and further away from facing the fact that I was flippantly being a condescending and dismissive white asshole"

:smuglord:

JFL nice try, Jack, but not a chance, go have a wank somewhere else.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Is it possible to move further and further away from things that don't exist?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

"It is impossible for one to see even a mountain in front of him when his head is firmly burrowed into his own ass."

  • Confucius
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

This kind of thing is why I prefer Laozi.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Indeed, to taste the Vinegar and find sweetness, what a man he was. His teachings should be remembered for 10,000 years at least.