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[–] [email protected] 46 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (8 children)

No it isn't.

Lemmy.ml is run by the same group of people that run lemmygrad. They took over the domain a couple of months ago. Since then, Lemmy.ml has turned into a tankie paradise.

Moreover, Lemmy.ml will apply inconsistent moderation without ever informing you what happened. I was having posts removed, no one was telling me anything, and then suddenly I was banned for two weeks. I tried reaching out for help to get clarity and there was zero response.

Lemmy.ml is a dumpster fire that should be avoided at all possible costs unless you want to deal with reddit style moderation and behavior combined with the toxicity of lemmygrad and hexbear.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I can tell you Lemmygrad and Lemmy.ml are not the same. If anything, lemmy.ml is privacy/tech based more than anything, with disdain for capitalism. They're not hardcore "AYE, COMRADE" like hexbear or lemmygrad, Jesus christ

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Theyre run and populated by the exact same people, bud

They are a little bit more mask on than mask off, but they are just as hardcore tankie because its literally the same people

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 years ago (1 children)

NO??? ml was the first general purpose instance and so had the most amount of users at the beginning, meaning a lot of normal communities developed there

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 years ago (5 children)

Don't confuse the newbie who just got out of his Reddit bubble, he's scared and alone

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Right, keep pretending the admins arent the same. Blame reddit for your confusion over 2 servers being owned by the same people.

Surely you will look clever, and smart. No one will find you out

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I don't think they're arguing that?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 years ago

Oh good! Let's trot out the condescension!

Your sense of entitled elitism does not redound to the quality of your character.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 years ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 24 points 2 years ago

Thank you for literally proving my point for me.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Genuine question, is that like supposed to be a legit insult or more ironic?

[–] [email protected] 22 points 2 years ago

They definitely see it as an insult. Check the comment history and you’ll see there is no attempt at irony. Just an angry poster who’s fallen too deep into it.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 years ago

If you go to very leftist areas of the internet (socialist or communist areas, anywhere from anarchistic (bottom left) to authoritarian (top left)) you'll see people using liberalism by its political science definition, rather than the definition its taken on within American culture. It stems from the idea of capital moving freely (that is, liberally) without restrictions. You'll also see it referred to as neoliberalism in the same spaces.

Full disclosure, I myself am pretty extremely socially libertarian (arguably borderline anarchistic), and have used liberal derogatively myself.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 years ago

wdym by

They took over the domain a couple of months ago. ?

wasn't ml started by Dessalines/nutomic??

[–] DoucheBagMcSwag 11 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

THAT makes sense why ani.social defederated from Lemmy.ml (I only subscribed to the anime instance since it had the largest user base)

Edit: the “.ml” anime instance is still the largest compared to everyone else. What a shame that we can’t move away from it

This was Ani’s side of the story: https://ani.social/comment/2199318

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Lemmy.ml defederated from ani.social, pretty sure cuz the borderline pedo bait

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I don't visit ani.social, a quick glimpse just now shows me a few Images that seem like borderline, but not straight-up "drawn sexualized child characters". No idea how they usually are.

But from following the story, it seems pretty typical that even the lemmy.ml admins - who develop Lemmy as a whole - would do a defederation without a public transparent process or even a notification to the deferated instance. That's straight up unpolite.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Yep. Explicitly because of CSAM

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Gonna have to be that guy again, but underage cartoon porn is not CSAM. CSAM as a term was invented to help law enforcement focus their limited resources on actual child victims. Underage cartoons are still child pornography, and still wrong and illegal, but CSAM is something else and deserves more immediate action.

There's no point in having technical terminology if it isn't used correctly :o)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

Good point. Lemmy.ml admins said CSAM was the reason so just passing that along.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 years ago (28 children)

Lemmy.ml is run and was started by the developers of Lemmy. The developers themselves align with lemmygrad, however they try to keep their politics out of lemmy.ml for the most part. It's debateable how effective they are with this, it probably ebbs and flows somewhat.

Moderation without informing you is common across all lemmy instances. Moderators have to go out of their way to notify you, there are no automated messages to go along with moderator action. However, lemmy has always had an open modlog, so you can see why you were moderated if you look it up. Note: sometimes I've had difficulty loading the modlog, particularly the instance modlog (where an overall instance ban would be), though community modlogs tend to load fine.

Also, you should bear in mind the difference between instance admin and community moderators - a community moderator is allowed to run their community as they see fit, within the rules of the instance (like reddit was supposed to be). If a moderator wants to ban you, they may have every right to per the instance rules, even if they have no good justification or you didn't break any rules.

Certainly, the hexbear admin are just as bad as the hexbear moderators, and will throw bans around for dubious reasons while protecting their own committing the same offence. Lemmygrad moderators seem a little less eager to ban, but they're still looking for any excuse. I haven't had any encounters with lemmy.ml moderation though, but I wouldn't consider the place a dumpster fire - that title firmly belongs to hexbear.

One good reason to keep lemmy.ml is simply to keep up with lemmy back-end development.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

And attempt to engage in secondary unused communities? A lot of the most active communities are on it, you are just asking for your home page to be either way too filtered or a wasteland.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I have cut lemmy.ml out of my diet entirely. My homepage is perfectly fine. People really dive back on this but all lemmy.ml offers is toxicity. Is that really worth looking at in the first place? Even if it was all a wasteland, that's still preferable to a toxic landfill.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

I don't think [email protected] is that toxic, or [email protected], or [email protected]

I always have my home to "Subscribed", I see nothing really bothering me

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 years ago

Given the admin that is in control of all of those, and admin who have proven that they love to micromanage and moderate individual communities, then yes. Yes it is that toxic.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

then subbing to ml as well will give you twice the activity

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

No, you just see everything twice.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

I'm sorry, I'm confused. You said Lemmy.ml is run by the same people as Lemmygrad.ml but if you click either of those links, you can see the admin list. Not one user is the same. Do they have different accounts, or what? Do you have some kind of citation for this?

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