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Did you listen to that cumtown episode or something?
Virginity is not something to be ashamed at, just don't make it a toxic identity or obsession, as with any form of malicious self-pity, it hurts you and others around you.
Having inadequate experience with romantic relationships does become an issue when you reach that age of late 20s/early 30s, as people do get suspicious or averse to committing themselves to a relationship with people who have not been in a committed relationship by the time they're 30 or older.
Not because of sexual inadequacy but because of a lack of experience with emotional intimacy and emotional reciprocity.
This comment made me feel worse and more worried now.