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[–] [email protected] 22 points 2 years ago

AMAB and also late 20s bloomer - no, not at all. My first time only solidified my suspicion that I was probably ace, but even so I empathize with the anxiety and self-esteem issues that come with the territory. Not feeling wanted or desired feels bad, and I wouldn't look down on that (unless it's accompanied by reactionary baggage).