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Holding grudges (lemmy.dbzer0.com)
submitted 2 years ago by Martineski to c/adhd
 
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[–] [email protected] 55 points 2 years ago (9 children)

You mean you don’t hyper fixate on a few uncomfortable moments from your past and hold grudges based on those?

[–] Martineski 28 points 2 years ago

I barely remember my own life so I indeed don't hold grudges because I have no idea why I held them or if it was actually my fault that something happened.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 years ago

That's definitely my flavor of ADHD.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 years ago

Oh yeah, that too.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago

I like to turn the grudge inward. Me am my nemesis, bane to others and self

[–] WYLD_STALLYNS 6 points 2 years ago

I do this often, so not sure every ADHD symptom is common to everyone.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

I didn't need to be called out like this 😓

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I mean, i do that too, but it's always something i did rather than something others did to me.

When others are shitty to me, it usually doesn't stick with me for long, because although bad at the moment, it wasn't my fault, so i'm guilt free.