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I know, this is Actually Infuriating, but ... Also she didn't just leave the now-dead kid in the car, she left two in there to die, but one survived. My guess: with brain damage. "Always Beautiful Medical Spa" FFS. Duck lips were totally worth it.

A baby died after his mother left him and his 2-year-old sibling inside a car while she was getting lip filler at a Bakersfield medical spa on a 101-degree day, authorities said.

It is estimated that Hernandez’s children were in the vehicle without air-conditioning for 90 minutes, wrote Det. Kyle McNabb, noting that the internal temperature of a car can rise to a blistering 143 degrees in just one hour of 100-degree weather.

Hernandez told police she found her baby foaming at the mouth and having an apparent seizure after emerging from her procedure at Always Beautiful Medical Spa, according to the police report. She frantically dialed 911, and both her children were transported to a hospital for treatment.

By the time her 1-year-old arrived at Adventist Health hospital, he wasn’t breathing, had no pulse, his lips were blue, and he had an internal body temperature of 107.2 degrees

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[–] [email protected] 70 points 4 days ago (2 children)

jesus christ, the mother was fucking 20, and she was allowed to take the children into the lobby but opted out of it.

she blatently knew and asked about her options and chose the one with the highest risk.

[–] [email protected] 44 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

wait... the staff KNEW?

Fuck them too.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

they knew she had children, but im not completely aware she asked the day of the appointment or not. its completely possible she asked when booking the appointment on a different day. its just at some point the establishment was asked.

edit: it mentions earlier in the day. so there was no guarantee that the staff KNEW the kids were out there during the appointment, but knew she had kids.

whether they knew she took them with her for the appointment is a different question thats yet to be answered

[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Highest risk? Death was almost guaranteed in this case.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 4 days ago (1 children)

She did leave the car running, but it shut off after an hour.

It's still super negligent to leave a 1 and 2 year old alone in public for 2.5h, regardless of the weather.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Well the conditioning part of the air turned off when the engine turned off. The police reported the air was still going but warm when they arrived. Meaning she murdered her child and will likely get off with some kind of child neglegence charge.

She deserves worse, but honestly I can't see a judge thinking she won't have already received punishment by losing her child.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Murder requires intent. Her intent was that the car would be running the whole time she was in the appointment. She wasn't aware the car would shut off after an hour running in park.

That makes it negligent manslaughter.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

I understand you just mean the term murder has legal definitions that vary. In California it may fall under this second section.

"Sentencing for Involuntary Manslaughter: Involuntary manslaughter, under Penal Code Section 192(b), involves causing a death without intent to kill, often through reckless or negligent actions. It differs from voluntary manslaughter by focusing on the lack of malice and intent. The law penalizes those whose careless conduct results in fatal outcomes.

Involuntary manslaughter is typically classified as a felony, with potential imprisonment ranging from two to four years. The court considers the defendant’s conduct and case circumstances, including the degree of negligence and foreseeability of harm. Restitution to the victim’s family for economic losses is often required, emphasizing the broader impact of the offense. Probation may be considered for first-time offenders or cases with mitigating circumstances."

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago

its only guaranteed because of the amount of time the surgery took in the end. if it was shorter, it would have been averted. (say if it eas hour 10 or 20, would have been still negligent but they would probably be alive. the actual time was double that)

basically there was a chain of decisions and events that led to the deaths, but she still chose the one where the worst outcome was potentially death.