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I'm looking for a new instance since lemm.ee is closing by the end of the month. What's a good instance to be on these days?

I'm looking for a instance with the fewest trolls, bots, and anyone that likes to take things to the extremes.

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[โ€“] fxomt 52 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (26 children)

Depends; Closest thing to lemm.ee? Maybe lemmy.zip?

Here's my own choices:

  • lemmy.dbzer0.com (totally unbiased ๐Ÿ˜)
  • lemmy.zip
  • quokk.au (not lemmy, piefed)
  • sopuli.xyz

Dbzer0 and zip are probably the closest thing to lemm.ee in terms of defederation.

[โ€“] [email protected] 13 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (5 children)

Problem isn't so much defederation policy in and of itself, as much as it is just the general level-headedness of the admins

Lemm.ee's lead admin had exactly the type of philosophy towards managing this platform that I want to see in wherever I go next.

This post alone is what convinced me to create a primary account there. It's professional, level-headed, nuanced, well spoken, and you can tell they've actually thought a lot about the big picture in an unbiased way. Not aggressive, preachy, standoffish, snarky, snobbish, and above all, not reactionary. Seeing the instance as infrastructure is what I want to see more of, but I also just want to see admins with this attitude overall.

[โ€“] db0 14 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Unfortunately that philosophy led them to close down their instance due to burnout, so maybe it's not exactly a winning one ๐Ÿ˜…

[โ€“] Geth 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I beg you, please take care of yourself if it's needed, take time off, relax, get help from others. I think you have a philosophy to not take money out of the donations, but speaking as one of the contributors, I think that's unfair considering the amount of work you put in.

What I'm saying is just do what it takes to not let it lead to burnout. I don't think anyone that understands the value of this instance would mind.

[โ€“] db0 8 points 3 days ago

I'm not close to burnout but thanks for the concern. I don't run my instance like lemm.ee does for a reason ;)

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