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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/Mysterious_Prune_738 on 2025-06-28 10:16:38+00:00.

I used to open my laptop and immediately feel overwhelmed — tabs, notifications, mental to-do lists.

One habit changed everything:

I take 5 minutes to write what actually matters today — not 20 tasks, just 3 goals.

Sometimes I do it in Notion, sometimes just in my notes app.

The point is: Give your brain a map.

It’s been way easier to focus, even when motivation’s low.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/TempleOfStillness on 2025-06-28 09:50:46+00:00.

Explaining it—even briefly—activates deeper brain pathways than passively reviewing it. It’s called the “protégé effect” and it boosts retention like crazy. Doesn’t matter if they understand—what matters is that you frame it in your own words.

Want to remember a name, a fact, or a life insight? Say it out loud… as if someone’s counting on you to explain it clearly.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/nytechnique on 2025-06-28 04:37:55+00:00.

We’ve been trained to answer immediately — yes, no, sure, maybe, let me check. But here’s the thing: the fastest answer is rarely the best one.

You don’t need to decide on the spot. In fact, you probably shouldn’t. Not for requests, not for invitations, not for favors, and definitely not for anything involving money or your time.

Someone wants a favor?

“Let me think about it.”

Someone asks you to commit to plans?

“Let me sit with that and get back to you.”

It buys you time to assess how you actually feel, instead of people-pleasing your way into an obligation you’ll regret later.

It also gives you space to avoid manipulation, people with pushy energy hate when you don’t immediately fold. You’re taking yourself seriously, and that makes them pause. You're not being rude. You're just not being rushed.

My therapist calls it “emotional buffering.” I think of it like psychological two-factor authentication. Before anyone gets access to your time, your peace, or your energy . There's a moment of conscious approval required.

Try it for a week. Seriously. It’s one of the most powerful boundaries you can set without saying "no" at all. People will start thinking you’re thoughtful and intentional and you’ll realize how many things you didn’t actually want to say yes to in the first place.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/humourlock on 2025-06-28 03:38:50+00:00.

ever open your fridge just to stare at it knowing there’s nothing new inside but still keep checking it every few minutes that’s exactly how we treat our phones scrolling apps like we’re gonna magically find something life changing truth is your brain’s just bored not hungry next time you reach for your phone ask yourself did anything really change since five minutes ago that small awareness can save hours of your day without even trying

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/arteether on 2025-06-27 21:49:31+00:00.

My friend's dad recently passed away from cancer. We are both students in different states but I live close to our hometown. (Information matters because we don't get any holidays so I can only visit on weekends)

It happened a week ago I came to know now because she was too sad to talk before. Everything in me wants to run and hug her. But as I talked to her today she said she has so many relatives coming in and out and how much she hates it, I wondered if that was a good idea??

I asked her she said she can't talk about the same thing rn and she hates how everyone is acting. I understand that, and I wanna honor it, but I saw many people say that they were glad their loved one just came without giving them a choice and that they needed it.

Some context is we used to be best friends and now we are just people who check up on each other once in a while. So i don't wanna impose or suddenly be there a lot when we didn't really have that kind of a relationship for some time now.

I just listened to her talk. She is at her family home so no need to bring food or do the dishes etc. I was wondering how else can I help, without being too much. And if i should just go visit her or visit her when everything dies down a little. The relatives will still be here for 13 more days so I will likely have to go when they are present, and she will have to go back to college after that.

Please help i really wanna be there for her. She is devestated and i wanna do any small of big thing to make her feel a bit better. Also would it be a good idea to check up on her regularly now when our friendship breakup wasn't on very good terms (but we still have been very civil afterwards with each other) (this was 3 yrs ago)

Edit: thank you for all the responses, but to add some more context.

1. Our states for college are 2 days away by train, so can't physically hangout.
2. She has house help and maids taking care of the food and cleanliness at home. And i can't really go to her dorm because it's so far away
3. I asked her 3 times in different ways (don't worry i wasn't imposing) if she wants me to come rn, she said to come later, hence this post, I wanted to ask what i should do. Cause I saw many people mention they appreciated their friends being there without asking.
4. As i mentioned our friendship isn't how it used to be, so to suddenly call so much, would it be appreciated and appropriate? Would it not come off as pity? The last thing I wanna do is make things worse than they already are.
5. I asked her if she wants to live with me for the time being but she mentioned in her culture she can't go out for at least 13 days, and has to take care of her mom.

Regardless i might not go today (because she told me to) but I will go next week. So i just wanna ask what do I say to her? Do i not talk about it at all? Do i talk about mundane things? As for people who mentioned saving the date for the death anniversary, what do you say then?

I am sorry if the questions seem very juvenile this is my first time dealing with something like this.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/shiishiimanu on 2025-06-27 19:17:21+00:00.

Hey folks,

I’m shifting to a new flat soon and honestly, just thinking about packing everything is draining me. I’ve got work, barely any energy left by the end of the day, and my room looks like a tornado hit it.

Any tips or hacks to speed up the packing process? Like how to avoid overthinking what to pack where, or how to keep things a little organized without going full Marie Kondo?

Appreciate the help in advance!

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/starsinpurgatory on 2025-06-27 16:39:47+00:00.

Sometimes I find that I may be better working with actual negative outcomes, i.e. direct criticism or slight, because at least it's an answer and I can either try to improve even if it stings or quickly move on emotionally, as opposed to ruminating over and over again over ambiguity in social interactions, for example.

It is annoying because, objectively I know it is irrational of me to view something I can even acknowledge as neutral, in a negative light. This kind of cognitive dissonance is very....unproductive.

Any tips/strategies to overcome this? Thank you!

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/Ivy_watson on 2025-06-27 14:09:47+00:00.

Common responses like “No problem” or “No worries” are casual but don’t emphasize the positive nature of the interaction. Instead, saying “I’m happy to help” or “It was my pleasure” subtly reinforces that helping was intentional and appreciated.

This small shift in language improves how you’re perceived in professional and casual settings. It makes you sound more approachable, courteous, and thoughtful without feeling forced.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/phoenixswope on 2025-06-27 12:52:23+00:00.

Original Title: LPT - If at all humanly possible, give it time. Take a beat. Let it sit for a minute. Wait that awkward amount of time and then hold a little longer. People take the easiest path - don't be the easiest path.

This is true for so many things, I had to go with "miscellaneous" flair!

If you feel hungry, wait a few minutes before grabbing a snack. The craving might pass...and if it doesn't, then you're actually hungry so eat and dont feel guilty!

If you really want to buy that thing, give it a few days and see if you still want it.

When shopping, don't put it in your basket until last. Get what was on your list, then come back and get it if you still want it.

Group email? Don't answer immediately. Someone else might step in and take the work (unless you wanted it, of course).

Someone asking for help? Wait an hour and circle back (I use Google snooze like I own stock). They usually "found an answer" themselves by the time I get back to them. I suspect they waited five minutes then moved on to their next enabler. Maybe even the work instruction!

My therapist called it a barrier to access. As an electronics guy I think of it like adding resistance.

People (including you) will often take the easiest path - Don't be everyone's easiest path.

Try it out! I guarantee it will save you time, money, anxiety...and help you take back control.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/det_jperalta on 2025-06-27 09:34:42+00:00.

I always struggled to find shirts that looked good and didn’t make me feel like I was melting during semi-formal or smart-casual events. Regular collared shirts or nice T-shirts often felt too thick, heavy, or tight, and I’d end up sweating through them which is embarrassing and uncomfortable.

Then I discovered golf shirts. They're a game changer. Designed with performance and breathability in mind, they’re usually made of moisture-wicking, lightweight, and stretchy material that helps regulate temperature and resist sweat. Add the fact that they’re collared and come in a range of stylish designs, and you’ve got a shirt that looks put together without making you feel like you’re overheating.

Pair them with tailored pants or chinos and decent shoes, and nobody’s going to think you’re headed to the course, they’ll just think you look sharp and comfortable.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/Sand4Sale14 on 2025-06-27 09:05:08+00:00.

When I get overloaded too many tabs open, too much noise, mind spinning I step away from everything for just two minutes.

No phone, no music, no scrolling. Just me standing up, closing my eyes, and breathing. It’s such a small thing, but it calms the racing thoughts just enough to get me back to baseline.

I started doing it a few months ago without really thinking about it. Now it’s part of how I move through stressful days without fully melting down

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/TheKhaos121 on 2025-06-27 08:16:06+00:00.

Some days time goes by quickly, my first hour is usually fast then the rest it drags on and feels like forever. How do I get into this first hour mindset for the entire day so it all over before I even know it?

I work retail and do the same thing every day, I occasionally listen to an audiobook but if I pick a boring one my day goes even slower.

Tl;Dr How do I get into the mindset where time speeds by?

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/humourlock on 2025-06-27 06:52:57+00:00.

Your body loses water overnight. Even slight dehydration can cause grogginess, headaches, and low energy in the morning. Keeping a glass or bottle of water beside your bed and drinking it the moment you wake up not only rehydrates you but also gives your metabolism and brain a signal to "start the engine."

Bonus: Open your curtains right after — the light + hydration combo wakes you up like magic

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/farm_sauce on 2025-06-27 01:46:00+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/marlboromannz on 2025-06-27 01:01:14+00:00.

It’s probably not a huge tip but it’s helping me… I don’t know how many times I’ve been rushing to get work done and info to workmates who are covering for me before I go on annual leave to only remember as I’m about to walk out the door that I haven’t set up my OOO… I’m then another five minutes late leaving as I try and get the dates I’m away correct and make sure the right person is on the reply etc. it’s added stress I could do without.

Well, I’m away in a couple of weeks and I have already set up my out of office so it is all ready to go.

It’s another thing I can feel good about having already ticked off the list and I also don’t have to worry about doing it at the last minute!

Win win!

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/SirJohnSmythe on 2025-06-26 21:53:40+00:00.

This is true for job interviews, getting a favor from customer service, or personal disagreements - you decide how much people will hear and whether they'll disagree based on the voice you say it with.

I spent years feeling like nobody listened to me. Turns out I needed to fake a bit of enthusiasm to get people to see reason.

If it's hard to control your tone (I'm on the spectrum) try to improve your mood.

Positive and sincere - smile even when on the phone. Watch a funny clip to get out of your funk before you bring up "the problem"

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/Cntrlc-Cntrlv on 2025-06-26 18:50:09+00:00.

I’m seeing more and more of my colleagues adopt these tools at work. I know it’s recent because they’ll respond to a debated topic or a request for ideas with “here’s what ChatGPT has to say about XYZ!” as if it’s a novel, interesting thought. It’s pretty cringy and the consensus on my team is we all just ignore it.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/DrSwitchUp on 2025-06-26 10:03:24+00:00.

Whether you left or they abandoned you. The door is closed for the same pattern and reason. It’s easy to romanticize the past. Memories have a way of softening the edges of reality, making us forget the reasons why certain chapters ended. Whether it’s a relationship, friendship, job, or habit if it ended, there was likely a good reason.

Nostalgia often highlights the good while quietly burying the frustration, hurt, or unhealthy patterns that led to the door closing in the first place. Before you consider reopening that door, take a step back and remind yourself why it was shut.

Growth happens when we learn to move forward, not when we keep circling back to the same lessons.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/OkAccess6128 on 2025-06-26 09:51:32+00:00.

If you're like me and sometimes forget small but important things, here's a simple trick, just change your lock screen wallpaper to show that one thing you really need to remember today. It could be Take medicine, Carry ID, or Call someone. If you feel lazy to do it every day, no worries, just do it on days when it actually matters. You’ll check your phone so many times anyway, and seeing that reminder right there can really help. You can use free apps like Canva, NoteToImage, or even just screenshot a note. Takes less than a minute, It's one of those little things that actually helps.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/Top-Highway7596 on 2025-06-26 05:11:40+00:00.

I always wanted to talk about this subject. I personally love my lonely times.

Most of my hobbies like books, movies and exercise do not even require another person. I can spend hours and hours at home alone without feeling bored a second. I think in some aspects, it can be viewed as an advantage since it's rare that I get involved with toxic groups or unhealthy relationships.

In another view, I wish I could get out of my comfort zone more often to meet more people or even going to parties (I don't usually enjoy parties) more often.

I guess now with AI and chatbots, we all have a smart "co-worker or friend" so again I feel less need to go out and challenge myself in social groups.

Has anyone here been on the same boat? if yes how do you deal with this conflict?

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/ivan_denysov on 2025-06-25 12:25:42+00:00.

You might learn about limitations, requirements or maintenance items that are never mentioned in marketing materials or online reviews

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/trammeloratreasure on 2025-06-25 21:04:14+00:00.

Original Title: LPT: If you have to tip your refrigerator on its side to move it or whatever, before plugging it back it, let it sit upright in its final destination for at least the amount of time that it was on its side.

Maybe more of a PSA than an LPT, but either way, heed my warning!

We had to lay our perfectly good fridge on its side to get it through a tight spot, and it was sideways for about 45 minutes. Turns out, that’s enough time for compressor oil to get into the coolant lines, which can mess up the compressor.

Now our fridge barely cools, and the freezer doesn’t even get cold. The thing just runs nonstop.

So if you ever have to tip your fridge or freezer on its side, make sure you stand it upright for at least as long as it was on its side before plugging it back in. This gives the oil time to settle back where it belongs.

I asked around, and about half the people I know didn’t realize this was an issue... including me! So, hopefully this saves someone else from wrecking their fridge.

Edit: More info here.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/timistoogay on 2025-06-25 13:52:45+00:00.

I just watched my friends threw away dozens of canvases and some amazing statues because we all live in the city and no one has space for all our creations :(

This way we can: 1.not worry about storage 2.get excited/great for being appreciated

You can: 1.get cool arts! 2.support new local talents!

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/Tsuron88 on 2025-06-25 18:40:35+00:00.

Examples: When you sit at your desk → 1 min clean-up. Finish eating → 1 min journaling.

Why it works: Micro-rituals create emotional cues and build consistency without requiring motivation.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/TheblackNinja94 on 2025-06-25 16:43:18+00:00.

Ever had a friend drop a snarky comment like, “Must be nice to have time to do your hair every day…” or “I guess some of us don’t get invited to everything”?

Instead of clapping back or matching their tone, stay kind but direct. Say something like, “I didn’t mean to upset you. Want to talk about it?” or “That sounded a little off are we good?”

People often expect pettiness in return. But when you respond with calm confidence, it immediately changes the energy. It shows emotional maturity and puts the conversation back on respectful ground.

Real-life example: My coworker once made a backhanded comment during lunch about me getting compliments. Instead of getting defensive, I smiled and said, “You’ve been kinda spicy today everything okay?” She paused, laughed awkwardly, and then actually opened up about her rough morning.