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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/Kasper9999 on 2025-06-29 10:12:06+00:00.

I used to think I needed to respond to everything immediately or people would think I didn’t care.

Once I let that go, my stress dropped, and weirdly, my communication actually got better.

Curious what silent rules others have stopped following, and what changed after.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/MicroscopicGrenade on 2025-06-29 06:13:40+00:00.

I have an anxiety disorder, take medication, don't feel any anxiety anymore, but sometimes stutter uncontrollably on the phone, in person, etc., and that might be related.

I also struggle with slurred speech at times and word substitution where I'll unconsciously substitute one word for another while speaking.

e.g., I might substitute "up" for "down", and for no apparent reason.

It's bizarre, and I don't like it.

Anyway.

I've found that people sometimes give me weird or vaguely sympathetic looks when I stutter so I just flatly and blankly say:

• "Sorry, I stutter sometimes."

Or:

• "Sorry, I'm stuttering more than usual today."

Or even just:

• "So, anyway"
• "Oops, sorry'
• "Sorry about that"

And move on without pausing at all, explaining myself, looking for sympathy, etc.

It always seems to work, and usually resets the situation as people will then recognize that I can't control it.

It's never once backfired in any noticeable way.

It's also worth noting that I'm a man in his early 30s who works in a highly complex area of software engineering and data analysis, and often stutter uncontrollably while talking about dense, complex topics as a subject matter expert.

I'll often be explaining something that comes across as complete wizardry, and will start stuttering - likely making me come across as neurotic - but, I'm not - and generally experience a significantly reduced spectrum of emotions.

But, just moving on and not really caring how someone else views what's likely a medical condition has been tremendously helpful for me in both my personal, and professional life.

If you stutter, you have the option of not being bothered by it for simply, not being bothered by it anymore.

If someone ever gives you a hard time for stuttering - which is rare now - you could make a sadface and move on without skipping a beat - and, you know, not caring.

Stuttering happens, don't make it weird.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/jotan82 on 2025-06-29 05:38:44+00:00.

Original Title: LPT: for reCAPTCHA that asks you to click the checkbox, instead of clicking, start at one corner of the box, click AND HOLD, drag a few pixels towards the other corner then release. This will bypass any further verification.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/cooljim198 on 2025-06-29 02:39:40+00:00.

One of the biggest game-changers people overlook is how you reheat your food. The microwave is convenient, sure, but it turns texture into mush and dries things out from the inside out. Instead: Use a skillet or nonstick pan. Add a splash of water, broth, or a tiny bit of oil (depending on the food), toss a lid on if needed, and reheat gently over medium heat.

Your stir-fry gets its crisp back. Your pasta sauce reactivates instead of turning to glue. Pizza? Reheated in a pan with a lid = crispy bottom, gooey cheese, actual flavor. The best part? Some foods actually improve overnight like chili, curries, braised meats, fried rice. Reheating them properly just takes it even further.

Bonus tip: If you do use the microwave, cover your food with a damp paper towel. Cuts down on drying and keeps things from turning into rubber.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/Killentyme55 on 2025-06-29 01:01:01+00:00.

I have an Acer laptop that is almost always plugged in. A while back the cursor randomly started jumping all over the screen rather than following the touchpad inputs. Sometimes it was fine, other times all over the place. I tried all the Google recommendations, uninstall/reinstall the driver, check for firmware updates, etc. but no luck. I finally replaced the touchpad which worked at first, but not for long.

Long story short, it was due to a cheap aftermarket charger. I was skeptical when I first read about the possibility until I discovered that the problem didn't exist when on battery alone (hence the random behavior). I tried a different charger and problem solved.

Don't ask me why, but it's been months with no issues. I never argue with success.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/memesforlife213 on 2025-06-28 20:00:14+00:00.

I think you can do this as well on android, though it might go by a different name.

To navigate the phone with voice over, swipe on the screen for VoiceOver to read out the button. Double tap quickly to tap/select the button.

My brother’s display just showed the color green, but he could still hear the passcode tapping sounds, so I enable voice over with Siri, and navigate for it to trust his computer on iTunes, and to allow for it to take a backup on the phone (You need to verify on the phone before it works)

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/BonoboIsland on 2025-06-28 18:46:29+00:00.

This works for the main fireworks show in our town at 9 pm. If we play a loud action movie (and don't stop/pause it during the show), our dogs usually don't get scared by the fireworks. This doesn't always work for the single neighborhood ones that go off late that night.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/TempleOfStillness on 2025-06-28 10:29:50+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/Mysterious_Prune_738 on 2025-06-28 10:16:38+00:00.

I used to open my laptop and immediately feel overwhelmed — tabs, notifications, mental to-do lists.

One habit changed everything:

I take 5 minutes to write what actually matters today — not 20 tasks, just 3 goals.

Sometimes I do it in Notion, sometimes just in my notes app.

The point is: Give your brain a map.

It’s been way easier to focus, even when motivation’s low.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/TempleOfStillness on 2025-06-28 09:50:46+00:00.

Explaining it—even briefly—activates deeper brain pathways than passively reviewing it. It’s called the “protégé effect” and it boosts retention like crazy. Doesn’t matter if they understand—what matters is that you frame it in your own words.

Want to remember a name, a fact, or a life insight? Say it out loud… as if someone’s counting on you to explain it clearly.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/nytechnique on 2025-06-28 04:37:55+00:00.

We’ve been trained to answer immediately — yes, no, sure, maybe, let me check. But here’s the thing: the fastest answer is rarely the best one.

You don’t need to decide on the spot. In fact, you probably shouldn’t. Not for requests, not for invitations, not for favors, and definitely not for anything involving money or your time.

Someone wants a favor?

“Let me think about it.”

Someone asks you to commit to plans?

“Let me sit with that and get back to you.”

It buys you time to assess how you actually feel, instead of people-pleasing your way into an obligation you’ll regret later.

It also gives you space to avoid manipulation, people with pushy energy hate when you don’t immediately fold. You’re taking yourself seriously, and that makes them pause. You're not being rude. You're just not being rushed.

My therapist calls it “emotional buffering.” I think of it like psychological two-factor authentication. Before anyone gets access to your time, your peace, or your energy . There's a moment of conscious approval required.

Try it for a week. Seriously. It’s one of the most powerful boundaries you can set without saying "no" at all. People will start thinking you’re thoughtful and intentional and you’ll realize how many things you didn’t actually want to say yes to in the first place.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/humourlock on 2025-06-28 03:38:50+00:00.

ever open your fridge just to stare at it knowing there’s nothing new inside but still keep checking it every few minutes that’s exactly how we treat our phones scrolling apps like we’re gonna magically find something life changing truth is your brain’s just bored not hungry next time you reach for your phone ask yourself did anything really change since five minutes ago that small awareness can save hours of your day without even trying

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/arteether on 2025-06-27 21:49:31+00:00.

My friend's dad recently passed away from cancer. We are both students in different states but I live close to our hometown. (Information matters because we don't get any holidays so I can only visit on weekends)

It happened a week ago I came to know now because she was too sad to talk before. Everything in me wants to run and hug her. But as I talked to her today she said she has so many relatives coming in and out and how much she hates it, I wondered if that was a good idea??

I asked her she said she can't talk about the same thing rn and she hates how everyone is acting. I understand that, and I wanna honor it, but I saw many people say that they were glad their loved one just came without giving them a choice and that they needed it.

Some context is we used to be best friends and now we are just people who check up on each other once in a while. So i don't wanna impose or suddenly be there a lot when we didn't really have that kind of a relationship for some time now.

I just listened to her talk. She is at her family home so no need to bring food or do the dishes etc. I was wondering how else can I help, without being too much. And if i should just go visit her or visit her when everything dies down a little. The relatives will still be here for 13 more days so I will likely have to go when they are present, and she will have to go back to college after that.

Please help i really wanna be there for her. She is devestated and i wanna do any small of big thing to make her feel a bit better. Also would it be a good idea to check up on her regularly now when our friendship breakup wasn't on very good terms (but we still have been very civil afterwards with each other) (this was 3 yrs ago)

Edit: thank you for all the responses, but to add some more context.

1. Our states for college are 2 days away by train, so can't physically hangout.
2. She has house help and maids taking care of the food and cleanliness at home. And i can't really go to her dorm because it's so far away
3. I asked her 3 times in different ways (don't worry i wasn't imposing) if she wants me to come rn, she said to come later, hence this post, I wanted to ask what i should do. Cause I saw many people mention they appreciated their friends being there without asking.
4. As i mentioned our friendship isn't how it used to be, so to suddenly call so much, would it be appreciated and appropriate? Would it not come off as pity? The last thing I wanna do is make things worse than they already are.
5. I asked her if she wants to live with me for the time being but she mentioned in her culture she can't go out for at least 13 days, and has to take care of her mom.

Regardless i might not go today (because she told me to) but I will go next week. So i just wanna ask what do I say to her? Do i not talk about it at all? Do i talk about mundane things? As for people who mentioned saving the date for the death anniversary, what do you say then?

I am sorry if the questions seem very juvenile this is my first time dealing with something like this.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/shiishiimanu on 2025-06-27 19:17:21+00:00.

Hey folks,

I’m shifting to a new flat soon and honestly, just thinking about packing everything is draining me. I’ve got work, barely any energy left by the end of the day, and my room looks like a tornado hit it.

Any tips or hacks to speed up the packing process? Like how to avoid overthinking what to pack where, or how to keep things a little organized without going full Marie Kondo?

Appreciate the help in advance!

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/starsinpurgatory on 2025-06-27 16:39:47+00:00.

Sometimes I find that I may be better working with actual negative outcomes, i.e. direct criticism or slight, because at least it's an answer and I can either try to improve even if it stings or quickly move on emotionally, as opposed to ruminating over and over again over ambiguity in social interactions, for example.

It is annoying because, objectively I know it is irrational of me to view something I can even acknowledge as neutral, in a negative light. This kind of cognitive dissonance is very....unproductive.

Any tips/strategies to overcome this? Thank you!

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/Ivy_watson on 2025-06-27 14:09:47+00:00.

Common responses like “No problem” or “No worries” are casual but don’t emphasize the positive nature of the interaction. Instead, saying “I’m happy to help” or “It was my pleasure” subtly reinforces that helping was intentional and appreciated.

This small shift in language improves how you’re perceived in professional and casual settings. It makes you sound more approachable, courteous, and thoughtful without feeling forced.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/phoenixswope on 2025-06-27 12:52:23+00:00.

Original Title: LPT - If at all humanly possible, give it time. Take a beat. Let it sit for a minute. Wait that awkward amount of time and then hold a little longer. People take the easiest path - don't be the easiest path.

This is true for so many things, I had to go with "miscellaneous" flair!

If you feel hungry, wait a few minutes before grabbing a snack. The craving might pass...and if it doesn't, then you're actually hungry so eat and dont feel guilty!

If you really want to buy that thing, give it a few days and see if you still want it.

When shopping, don't put it in your basket until last. Get what was on your list, then come back and get it if you still want it.

Group email? Don't answer immediately. Someone else might step in and take the work (unless you wanted it, of course).

Someone asking for help? Wait an hour and circle back (I use Google snooze like I own stock). They usually "found an answer" themselves by the time I get back to them. I suspect they waited five minutes then moved on to their next enabler. Maybe even the work instruction!

My therapist called it a barrier to access. As an electronics guy I think of it like adding resistance.

People (including you) will often take the easiest path - Don't be everyone's easiest path.

Try it out! I guarantee it will save you time, money, anxiety...and help you take back control.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/det_jperalta on 2025-06-27 09:34:42+00:00.

I always struggled to find shirts that looked good and didn’t make me feel like I was melting during semi-formal or smart-casual events. Regular collared shirts or nice T-shirts often felt too thick, heavy, or tight, and I’d end up sweating through them which is embarrassing and uncomfortable.

Then I discovered golf shirts. They're a game changer. Designed with performance and breathability in mind, they’re usually made of moisture-wicking, lightweight, and stretchy material that helps regulate temperature and resist sweat. Add the fact that they’re collared and come in a range of stylish designs, and you’ve got a shirt that looks put together without making you feel like you’re overheating.

Pair them with tailored pants or chinos and decent shoes, and nobody’s going to think you’re headed to the course, they’ll just think you look sharp and comfortable.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/Sand4Sale14 on 2025-06-27 09:05:08+00:00.

When I get overloaded too many tabs open, too much noise, mind spinning I step away from everything for just two minutes.

No phone, no music, no scrolling. Just me standing up, closing my eyes, and breathing. It’s such a small thing, but it calms the racing thoughts just enough to get me back to baseline.

I started doing it a few months ago without really thinking about it. Now it’s part of how I move through stressful days without fully melting down

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/TheKhaos121 on 2025-06-27 08:16:06+00:00.

Some days time goes by quickly, my first hour is usually fast then the rest it drags on and feels like forever. How do I get into this first hour mindset for the entire day so it all over before I even know it?

I work retail and do the same thing every day, I occasionally listen to an audiobook but if I pick a boring one my day goes even slower.

Tl;Dr How do I get into the mindset where time speeds by?

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/humourlock on 2025-06-27 06:52:57+00:00.

Your body loses water overnight. Even slight dehydration can cause grogginess, headaches, and low energy in the morning. Keeping a glass or bottle of water beside your bed and drinking it the moment you wake up not only rehydrates you but also gives your metabolism and brain a signal to "start the engine."

Bonus: Open your curtains right after — the light + hydration combo wakes you up like magic

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/farm_sauce on 2025-06-27 01:46:00+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/marlboromannz on 2025-06-27 01:01:14+00:00.

It’s probably not a huge tip but it’s helping me… I don’t know how many times I’ve been rushing to get work done and info to workmates who are covering for me before I go on annual leave to only remember as I’m about to walk out the door that I haven’t set up my OOO… I’m then another five minutes late leaving as I try and get the dates I’m away correct and make sure the right person is on the reply etc. it’s added stress I could do without.

Well, I’m away in a couple of weeks and I have already set up my out of office so it is all ready to go.

It’s another thing I can feel good about having already ticked off the list and I also don’t have to worry about doing it at the last minute!

Win win!

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/SirJohnSmythe on 2025-06-26 21:53:40+00:00.

This is true for job interviews, getting a favor from customer service, or personal disagreements - you decide how much people will hear and whether they'll disagree based on the voice you say it with.

I spent years feeling like nobody listened to me. Turns out I needed to fake a bit of enthusiasm to get people to see reason.

If it's hard to control your tone (I'm on the spectrum) try to improve your mood.

Positive and sincere - smile even when on the phone. Watch a funny clip to get out of your funk before you bring up "the problem"

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/Cntrlc-Cntrlv on 2025-06-26 18:50:09+00:00.

I’m seeing more and more of my colleagues adopt these tools at work. I know it’s recent because they’ll respond to a debated topic or a request for ideas with “here’s what ChatGPT has to say about XYZ!” as if it’s a novel, interesting thought. It’s pretty cringy and the consensus on my team is we all just ignore it.