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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/dlvesey on 2023-10-02 19:11:37.

Sorry if this is a really repetitive question, but I’m just wondering if anybody here has some insight.

I’ve never had a girlfriend, and I guess it’s one of my main insecurities because I’m getting to the age (18+) where a lot of people do. Girls have complimented my looks before - though not very often - and some have expressed interest in me over the years, but it hasn’t been clear enough for me to say definitively that I’m “good-looking.” There are many occasions in a group of boys and girls where the girls mainly talk to my guy friends, and I feel pretty left out (though it could be because I’m quite introverted, and talk more in one-on-one situations).

I know looks don’t really, REALLY matter, that confidence is perhaps the most crucial characteristic of an attractive man, but maybe having a more positive outlook on my looks might make me more confident. So: to men that are “handsome” or maybe men who have a very handsome friend, what are things you noticed that made you realise that?

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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/ObjectiveIngenuity20 on 2023-10-02 03:07:32.

I’ve seen a lot of posts on “how men don’t pick up romantic hints”, ever had experience with woman not understanding your hints and how was it?

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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/ComprehensiveBox6911 on 2023-10-02 14:44:41.

For me it’s short hair, i would absolutely melt in love if i got to date a short haired woman

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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/jubilanttrelawney on 2023-10-02 14:34:10.

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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/Zephyrscorp on 2023-10-02 09:58:02.

What’s considered a “good first date” for men? What are some things you all look out for?

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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/shaunna_thedork on 2023-10-02 04:04:43.

my dad was away a lot when my sister & i were young & when she had kids he was extremely awkward, like he didn't know how to properly hold a baby [supporting the head] & didn't really know how to talk to/behave around them. on the other hand, my husband hates kids but is very, very good with them.. i think because he essentially helped raise his younger brother

i find these differing experiences fascinating, maybe i'm weird haha just wondering about other people :)

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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/angelicswan333 on 2023-10-01 20:46:35.

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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/Jrh9000 on 2023-10-02 11:34:17.

Personally I'm on the left as were my dad and my grandpa.

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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/capsunlock_ on 2023-10-02 03:59:16.

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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/k8redd on 2023-10-01 18:10:15.

Edit: guys, I’m a woman.

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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/Prior-Outcome6956 on 2023-10-02 03:04:32.

Im a freaking sucker for customization in any video game, the more I can customize my person the more involved I’ll be with the whole game. So I was wondering for all my guys that play games. What are some of your guilty pleasures or certain concepts in a game that’ll make you more tied in to play?

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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/skullman_ps2 on 2023-10-02 03:34:26.

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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/No-Medicine-7453 on 2023-10-01 19:00:45.

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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/letstalkasap on 2023-10-01 22:00:50.

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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/blugiallo on 2023-10-01 10:42:28.

For me: cheated once. Will cheat another time for sure. No excuses and forgiveness.

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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/Arkitekt_GFX on 2023-10-01 21:19:46.

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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/Family_Man_On_TV on 2023-10-01 21:39:57.

I'll go first. Mine is ties. I despise ties with a burning passion. I like dressing nice, and to me, a suit without a tie is peak men's fashion, but I hate ties. If I must wear a tie, I always wear a jacket because wearing a tie without a jacket looks so ugly, in my opinion. I also hate wearing a vest without a jacket. I love wearing 3-piece suits, but you won't catch me taking the jacket off and wearing just a vest. I guess I have a problem with leaving my shirt sleeves without sleeves of their own. Anyways, what do you refuse to wear?

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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/No-Book-9412 on 2023-10-01 20:41:41.

You always hear that men will have sex withh anything, do you have any standards for who you sleep with? Are they high or low

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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/Destroyer_machine on 2023-10-01 18:27:25.

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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/milkman182 on 2023-10-01 17:40:59.

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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/brownt3mptati0n on 2023-10-01 18:00:37.

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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/Jaazzminee on 2023-10-01 13:43:34.

In an effort to always help him and add value to his life, recently he spoke to me about always having to be “on” meaning he always has to have his wits about him because a lot of people leaning on him and may need him at any given time. To me, living like that can become daunting sometimes. Just last night his friend contacted him at 4am after he got home from work at 2am because he had a flat tire and needed assistance. For the men that have a lot of people lean on them, in what ways can I assist him in being carefree and not always “on”

Thank you in advance for your suggestions!

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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/Independent_Jelly91 on 2023-10-01 12:44:22.

I workout a lot, I like to be active, but I don’t have gym body, just average

So do you care about gym body or is it enough that a girl is active and likes to workout?

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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/vapegod_420 on 2023-10-01 10:51:27.

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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/limache on 2023-09-30 18:11:42.