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I haven't had a good one, more a rough and fast finger in my ass that didn't really do anything for me. But I'd still say try it and just see if they can do it better.

I am trying to wind down my AMP experience, but I want to experience something similar to this before I do.

I’m still newish to mongering and I’m not in a huge metro area that has a bunch of options so the pickings aren’t amazing. And I’m trying to avoid indies, they are above my risk threshold. The ones I’ve found around here are less subtle and basically escorts working out hotels.

I’ve gotten a few fingers up there but the experience left a lot to be desired. Too rushed and rough to be enjoyable. So the quest continues.

Sounds like a good time. A TUMA is one thing that is on my bucket list, but I don't think there are any places near me that will do that.

You can’t pay for RM with a credit card anymore. I assume credit card processors cut them off. You have to use crypto now unfortunately.

As for if it is worth it, I found it useful starting out. But in my area at last, a lot of the information was outdated.

USASG= USA Sex Guide. The URL is in the sidebar. Not sure about the other one.

As for Intel, I’m assuming Intel on which places provide services.

USASG and STG mostly. I did have a subscription to RM for a month but that has expired and I’m not jumping through crypto hoops to renew. I just check for places with recent reviews and then check them out on Google Maps for reviews and general vibes.

I think this is beyond what a typical rub and tug semi-legit place would offer. Even an independent might not be down with this. You’re looking for a specialized escort at this point IMO. The logistics and clean up just don’t seem possible for any place even giving lip service to being a legit business.

I’m sure you can find someone willing to do this for money, I just doubt that you will find this with a business that has to pay taxes and operate a store front.

I don’t have any experience to say this though so take it with a grain of salt

I haven’t been seeing too many in my area thankfully. On the old sub I heard of a few in the Texas area, so it seems like it really depends on the political leaning of your state and local area.

Make sure you’re clean. Have the money separated by pocket. I put the house fee in a front pocket and then the tip in the back. If you’re new, you might not know how much you will have to tip, so it might be worthwhile to put the max amount you’re willing to tip for the first time.

You can haggle if you want, but don’t be a douche about it. There’s lots of historical posts and knowledge about what is normal, but for normal L1, you are looking at 50-80.

Don’t be nervous or explicit. As far as anyone knows, you are going in for a massage only. Nothing wrong with that. And in my area at least, the MTs don’t have good English so expect to not be able to communicate that well. Body language, pointing and nodding/shaking your head will probably be most of the conversation.

Always get naked when getting on the table. I’ve seen people say that you shouldn’t put a towel over yourself either, so far my results have been mixed with that.

Prices have definitely gone up from the guidance I’ve seen from the old subreddit and other sites like RM.

Getting L1 for $50 for instance seems pretty impossible. I’ve seen one place in my area that would accept $60 and that could have just been because of the experience. I had to wait 30 minutes on the table before the MT came in and they left in the middle for someone who wanted a “15 minute” massage which is definitely not on their menu. So I’m pretty sure they just left for 5-10 minutes to jerk off a guy before coming back to me. The general cost for L1 in my area seems to be 60-80 and that’s without any extras like UTC roaming, GFE, or nursing. And the one time I got (a bad) CBJ it was $130 and that was a negotiation.

So extrapolating out from there, $200 doesn’t seem completely out of whack. If you think about escorts, $200 would be within spec for low end type of FS providers but with more risk (physically, legally and STD wise) and possibly for less attractive providers.

I don’t have much fear of this since I go to official businesses, not private providers. But I do use Sudo for my texts and calls just in case and don’t give any real info.

Just off this experience I wouldn’t worry about it too much, but I wouldn’t go again if it concerns you. There are lots of options out there, no reason to add stress when the whole purpose is to relieve it.

I wasn’t clear, definitely not trying to get them to do more than what they want. It was more about how to relay what I want considering that it isn’t the usual rub and tug. If they don’t offer that, it’s all good. But I would like to know the best way to relay what I want.