tenchiken

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[–] tenchiken 7 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

How is anyone in your neighborhood sleeping?!

Or is it potent enough to knock everyone out before the strangled screams can be heard?

[–] tenchiken 3 points 1 day ago

Yikes that's some beefy hardware and capacity.

Thanks for the link, answered the dumb questions my mind popped up as well.

[–] tenchiken 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

He doesn't deserve you.

[–] tenchiken 4 points 1 day ago

It's tricky to get an abusive narcissist out of your head. They have a way of living there.

No joke! That's been the worst!

I'm glad you still have her around, and the chance to share time without the negatives.

I am. My 21 year old daughter has been evidence that I'm doing something ok despite, and it's amazing.

One of the most healing things so far has been the fact that I can look back and feel confident that I was right every time I thought "this feels like it is wrong and should be different". My daughter still finds me regularly for spontaneous hugs and any time something needs fixing that she hadn't figured out yet.

I hope you find a similar chance. It's deserved.

[–] tenchiken 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

He's made it worse sure, but I'd argue it's been wrecked for decades or more... Possibly a could hundred years at this point.

[–] tenchiken 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Solidarity. I can say that from the other side of that coin, it's not always better... Divorced when I was 12, I told my mother "about fucking time" and got slapped.

My single mother later destroyed my teenage years and 20s. She died and it took 10 years for the financial fraud to fall away. I'm still working to escape damage from her extorting and manipulating me by threatening to accuse me of molesting my daughter with several of her friends willing to lie to police.

I hope you at least came away with positives to build with.

[–] tenchiken 9 points 1 day ago

I flat celebrated my father's death. The upside was he instilled equality of gender well, and considering the 80s that wasn't common around middle USA.

Father's Day is complex for me. Balancing my adult daughter bringing it for me vs memories of mine takes effort.

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[–] tenchiken 1 points 3 days ago

Yes have some.

[–] tenchiken 29 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

https://ziperone.com/products/00000061782

It's a hinge cover for a fridge looks like.

[–] tenchiken 2 points 5 days ago

I dunno, I've rewatched a couple times... There's a TON of details that I either missed, or take on a completely different context following the ending.

Not required, but if you really enjoyed, then watching to catch the missed nuance can be another form of enjoyment too.

[–] tenchiken 23 points 5 days ago

It hurt itself in the confusion!

 

Hello!

More recently, when attempting to share some images to Element (chat client), I see the following:

I suspect this is file specific or mimetype, as it's consistent on a given image but doesn't seem to affect most images.

A source of an example image is https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/42991557 ...

In these cases, saving the same image then attaching it separately inside the chat client works normally.

Please let me know if I can help diagnose etc.

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