If some people were ill-informed and spreading that nonsense, that is on them. Not saying you are outright wrong, but I personally never saw any folks trying to make the argument. My recollection is that everyone knew this request came from Red Hat, and you could definitely easily see who submitted the proposal the entire time.
It's amazing that even though it's clear there was no steamrolling of this, you are still pissed that it was simply proposed.
We have enough real drama in the Linux community, we don't need manufactured stuff like this.
Added. Thanks.