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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (10 children)

https://hexbear.net/post/352119

Top comment on this post is

Every instance that has talked shit and got dogpiled should be thanking us for breathing some life into their dead and boring ass websites.

https://hexbear.net/comment/3744380

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 years ago (5 children)

overly concerned with civility or respectability

I for one do not mind admins that are concerned with civility or respectability. Forums should be about talking to people and I will always prefer to talk to people with civility and respect.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I wish there were a way to lock threads to the local instance.

Might be worth putting this feature in an automod bot in the long term.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 years ago (17 children)

Ada has very poorly handled the response to her “people of NATO” statement in a way that leaves a very bad taste in my mouth regarding the administration of Blåhaj Lemmy. I have noticed that a comment left by a Hexbear user saying “death to Nazis and transphobes” is gone now as well, which if this was an act of a Blåhaj Lemmy administrator, further reflects poorly on Blåhaj Lemmy’s administration.

I really do not think it's fair to go after Ada about this. I think this is such a weird hill to die on.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

Lol try that on the hexbear folks

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

Or rather vibes based social media participation? They're explicitly trying not to make it political

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 years ago (5 children)

It’s a thread about us, so . . .

It's actually a community about us, so...

My valiant neoliberal argument. Their insidious tankie rhetoric.

I am a leftist.

You can see the instance of the poster, can’t you? And it’s not like hexbear people are able to downvote posts, so our vote is (while still something) relatively weaker.

We can't downvote either, but a quick sampling shows over 3x as many hexbear users commenting as blahaj, so...

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Does anybody know if this is a feature of a decimal system?

[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 years ago (7 children)

This thread is a pretty good example.

[–] [email protected] 61 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (18 children)

I think the fact that they’re more active in this thread than the blahaj folks is fairly emblematic of the problem. They can't seem to help themselves with the brigading and they do seem to be drowning out local opinion with tankie rhetoric and spam.

EDIT: Just pointing out that if this were a blahaj exclusive thread you would get a very different sense of where popular opinion actually stands.

EDIT 2: I was initially pretty excited about federating with hexbear but I think after seeing the effect it has on the overall tone of discussion I'm pretty disappointed.

Not having downvotes does not, by any means, mean you need to post your disagreement. Our instance also does not have downvotes. You ARE drowning out exactly the sort of discussion this community is for. I can guarantee what you would like to say has already been posted and upvoting those posts and moving on IS the appropriate way to handle this issue in a meta community for an instance you are not a part of.

[–] [email protected] 82 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Not a great look here overall. Was definitely hoping they would take a little bit more accountability. The solution seems simple. Spend less money on egregiously expensive equipment and spend more money on making sure things are accurate before they go out the door.

 

From the article:

Sadly, the woman I briefly dated is not alone in her beliefs. In a survey of over 1,000 women, conducted by Glamour in 2016, 63% of women said they wouldn’t date a man who’s had sex with another man. (This isn’t just men who identify as bi. This includes all men who’ve experimented with another man, even if it only happened once!) Still, 47% of women said they've been attracted to another woman, and 31% of women have had a sexual experience with another woman.

NOTE: This is not the titular study but is used to establish context. The study can be found here: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/15299716.2018.1563935?journalCode=wjbi20
If anybody happens to be able to find the fulltext please feel free to link it.

 

Accounting for margin of error it may be more accurate to say there are roughly equal numbers of self-identified gay and bisexual men. Even still, this looks very little like the trend for women and would seem to go against the common idea of how people are distributed along the sexuality spectrum. Why do you guys think this might be?

Source is a Gallup poll from 2021. You can find their write up here: https://news.gallup.com/poll/389792/lgbt-identification-ticks-up.aspx

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Looks like he’s actually got a playlist of all of his men’s issues content. This is the most recent. Check it out here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLZOMlO2_17fuI_fuvilfbvOTf2P45qTJi

 

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/1468096

"Hawley typically cites Big Tech, Hollywood and academia as the unholy trinity of elites that has laid masculinity to waste. He likes to quote the titles of old feminist essays from obscure journals to imply that all college professors and all Democratic politicians hate men. But even as he blames this ruling-class syndicate for depriving men of their ancient reason for being, his own fears sync with ruling-class fears from time immemorial. Elite men are anxious that their wives, workers and children will gain financial and intellectual independence, take their property and flee. And then the unkindest cut: Someone new — a lowly outsider who has been waiting in the wings — will take their place at the top of the social order."

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