magi

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I'd go into the store for anyone who wanted makeup ayeaye

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Sleep well, see you on the other side comrade! rat-salute comrade-raccoon

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Aww looks like they're having fun ^^

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago (4 children)

He be lounging cutely c:

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago (6 children)

curly doing a chill c:

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

spoiler

4 month rutting season - the other 8 months of the year, sex doesn't matter, you don't even notice any secondary sex characteristics even

This sounds a lot like acespec life lmao

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago

Thank you for saying so <3

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

I look at it if I'm struggling with something, like sad feelings or feeling upset or something I would air it then. It doesn't have to be everything, maybe what is on your mind.

I understand how you feel, I think if they're at the stage where you can open up a little to them, choosing by priority or how much it's affecting you is a good starting point.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago (2 children)

You can find places that do eyeshadow/mascara and other stuff for cheap, pays to keep an eye out.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (2 children)

self-regulating sounds a lot like never bothering anyone with your silly emotions.

It's more being able to process your emotions and then express yourself, like voice what you have processed.

Your emotions aren't silly, they are what matter to you and what you feel in a given moment. But some emotion can be hard to deal with for some people be it anger or sadness or other emotions, some people have trouble as it can be a lot of emotion at once and that sometimes can be hard to regulate for a neurodiverse person. This can be an outburst or meltdown or withdrawl it can vary greatly. It's learning how to process emotions for the individual to then be able to talk about it that can be the hard part.

Getting to the stage of being able to talk about them freely can also be difficult.

I have trouble expressing myself to people because of trauma, I wasn't allowed to growing up or didn't have the opportunity to but now I'm older and have the opportunity to and want to I struggle with it. I need prompts to infodump or discuss things in depth because I haven't had that in my life, I never had the opportunity to just say what's going on with me so I feel awkward and struggle to talk, it's distressing to try to do it for me, and a lot of forcing myself to and I hate it.. It makes me distressed even to think about talking about how I feel or even just to talk about myself, and it's what holds me back with most relationships. I have spent so much time by myself and in my own head that nearly everything is internal and I find it hard to voice it.

share your problems with people

Most problems for you aren't exactly the same problems for other people as in severity but people should be willing to hear you out and offer advice if you feel you can talk to them.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Probably a good strat, when my fibro flares up it can wake me up with hip/leg/back,neck pain. Even with my high pain tolerance it can affect me and make it hard to lay, and then hard to walk. If I'm aware of a flare up I'll preventively take some ibroprofen but I don't tend to treat the pain other than with some stretching and exercise.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago (2 children)

You're welcome meow-hug

it's a more comfortable time in some ways but can come with its own challenges.

Oh definitely

lil emo kid

See I had that inner goth and went that route lol but yeah like I still struggle with expressing because of traumas and some I don't know if I can mend but I like being in my skin and I'm enjoying being the void goblin, wouldn't have it any other way either ^^

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