wdym bro I'm right here!
hor.. how you know so well they playboy unker.. unless... xD
did you leave because of what I said T.T
Isn't that what I just said? O.O
I feel like if you don't want people to reach out to you then don't join..? >.<
Having them not respond to a host rather than a direct PM surely is less pressure.
I haven't, and I'm not sure if I could. The whole point of relo is to have someone to come home to, and I'm not much of a chatter tbh (despite what it might seem like online). I notice that once I get comfortable with someone, I stop chatter and just like their presence near me. It's number 1 signal that I'm in a great place with them: that I no longer have to keep talking to ensure that they are still interested in me.
Not sure if that's a good thing tbh lel.
I'm not so certain there would be pressure, I mean it's sort of what one should expect since we're putting ourselves out there... Even if there is pressure, maybe this would be good practice to not do things out of pressure? :S Not something we don't have control over though, we could always put these in a disclaimer that you have to agree to when you sign up.
Most likely the people who signed up would not use their username but a nickname that they would actually use to introduce themselves as irl, or at least, that was what I had in mind. Also it's sort of a control test so it's by design; if I am hosting it, then I am responsible. I also serve as a gatekeeper; some girls may be too cavalier about giving out their info or what not and vice versa. I dunno, so many things that we have yet to experience until we actually do it to be able to see this from all angles.
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OOH right blind MEETUPs, yeah that sounds good!
I was also thinking:
we don't get to exchange contacts until we've gone through two sessions (for safety reasons among others). The contacts will be sent via the host i.e: Person A wants to connect with Person B. So host will send Person B Person A's contact, it will be up to B to respond to A.
Someone mentioned why dcx seem a little but more gatal lately xD
I do think dating apps play a huge part in the hook-up culture, if not directly. But I mean, it's the internet right. It was happening regardless. An app is somewhat more regulated, we get a peek at the packaging (so to speak) and it's somewhat anonymous but not anonymous at the same time.
On the other hand, I know so many couples who end up getting married from these apps as well. Pros and cons ey. I think the internet severely damaged our social skills collectively tbh. Either that or I can continue to blame the direction of my house for facing the west on a tuesday..
Oof, you're not the first person who refers to the "wizard" but I hope it didn't come off offensive >.<
That what I thought too, tbh. Surely men want younger women, I mean it's all about pros and cons right realistically speaking, haha.
you lefffft our server T.T