hogslayer

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 9 months ago

did Zuckerberg fight Elon Musk yet?

[–] [email protected] 30 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I think the collapse of the USA will look more like the fall of the USSR than Nazi Germany.

I hope you're right about that!

[–] [email protected] 8 points 9 months ago

reads like something Trump would tweet.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago (2 children)

If they didn't vote in 2020 then why now?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 9 months ago

we can only hope to be so lucky

[–] [email protected] 17 points 9 months ago

what is there to vote for?

how will anyone's material conditions change based on the winner?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Climbing gym or regular gym? Bouldering -> very social. Any other gym -> least social thing ever.

regular gym. why are they such un-social places? lol

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

If I didn't do that it probably would have been from a maker space or ugh the gym.

At the gym I go to, it doesn't seem like anyone ever socializes with anyone they didn't come in with (eg. their bf/gf).

In about 2 years of going most days of the week, nobody has ever tried to strike up a conversation with me.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago (3 children)

I gotta say I've met a lot of people that way at least In the gym

My gym seems to be a completely non-social place. I've been going like 3-6 times a week for nearly 2 years and not one person has tried to strike up a conversation with me.

It sucks because it's like the one public place other than grocery shopping that I go regularly, is fun to go to, etc. But it seems either nobody goes there to socialize or I'm too unattractive for anyone to talk to me.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

dating apps offer such an incestuous pool of people who have all met and had sex

I always hear this, but then why can't I seem to get in on it?

I'd be happy if I could just find a FWB or casual sex or anything like that. But I can't even get that, and it just seems like either all the dating apps/sites are dead or I'm just not good enough for anyone's standards.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

you're fuckin suss

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I saw dozens of psychiatrists, counselors, therapists and psychologists. Got absolutely nothing out of it.

Eventually i found my way to a Trauma Treatment Center where they specialize in fucked up little nuggets like me.

And then my life changed because I got the help I needed and was able to unwind a lot of my problems and develop coping tools for what I couldn't repair.

I wish I could do that

The problem is that if you don't have the money/insurance/referrals/whatever to get into one of those Trauma Treatment Centers, or otherwise stumble into the actually useful people who know what to do with trauma somehow, then you're doomed to dealing with all of those other useless sorts who just tell you to meditate it off.

how did you find or get into the Trauma Treatment Center, by the way?

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