I once said something about hating tankies and got name-checked into a thread there. I explained that I don't care for authoritarianism of any kind, and one mouthy punk kept trying to rile me up.
Y'all got a reputation for a reason.
(There were others who were chill about it, but people tend to remember loud assholes better than chill people.)
My new headcanon. Holy hell that's genius.
Don't be a devil's advocate. Devils can advocate for themselves.
I had to post three or four warnings to my friend group that said, "The following is not a cry for help, I promise I'm fine" before I posted this.
Worth it.
No, but I have been surviving, and honestly that's enough for now!
Thanks babe. ♥
I am a fixer by nature and by trade.
I'm big for advocating not to fix your partner, because then you aren't partners, but I've spent so much time so deep in the shit that the other day my boyfriend was saying this really sweet, emotional thing about how I "saved" him, and I had to very carefully censor myself because to me, his problems were just... they didn't even register. Among other professionals, I've called it "cute." Like to what I'm used to, his problems were the equivalent of "I can't find the mate to this sock" and I found it in the dryer.
Of course, his feelings are real and valid and justified, and his worst day is still his worst day, so there's no force on earth that could make me belittle his joy and gratitude but... yeah. Barely even registered that I was "saving" him.
Which says a lot about him, and a lot about me.
Fun fact; I think this is my first comment on Lemmy in like 2 weeks. Ya girl busy. Promise I still love ya. Just trying to save the world and doing full time college which was biting way too much off to chew.
I'll give it a shot. Thanks!
Every time it happens I shake my phone and yell, "Just let me give you money!!"
Yes! Every other month it drops me!
Literally I use my glasses as the example whenever I face an, "it's not natural!" Argument.
Friend, this is an ADHD community. Not a, "have you tried changing your outlook" community.
I figured you weren't! And I don't blame you for jumping to someone's defense. We need more people like that, so thanks.
Constantly forced to be an investigator in my own life.
It's never not pills for me.
The Swan Princess was "my" princess, and I still sing the songs sometimes to myself. It's way better than any of the others we had at the time.