Reasons Crystal gave for "breaking up" (apparently them being together was never official).
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She's way too independent and it took years for her to become that way since having left an abusive marriage (even tho she had an affair with a married man, got pregnant for him, wanted him to leave his wife for her, then aborted the baby when he didn't).
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She lost her identity, it took a while for her to get her identity back, but she's unsure if she even had one to begin with.
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She doesn't know who she is because she doesn't do anything other than work a lot and be a mom, therefore she can't offer herself to anybody.
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She's trying to find herself and she spent a lot of time working on herself and becoming a better person.
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She wants to focus on her career.
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She has a fear of commitment.
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There are red and pink flags.
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She knows she's not perfect, but there was an 'ick' and now she can't go back so she said, 'peace out.'
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She doesn't want to have to change him. She picks at the stupidest shit (her words), but doesn't want him to have to change who he is for her.
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She doesn't want to have to answer to anybody and doesn't want to have to talk to someone before bed.
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She doesn't know why, but says she knows that we know what she's talking about.
She's claiming that he judges her for the shows she watches on TV, that he needs to be fixed and that he doesn't have his shit together? Like what? lol