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[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 years ago

The 14 year old ate the chip at school, there's no mention of who gave the chip to him. It's a school administration problem, but hardly a parenting issue unless the mother bought the chip for her son and sent it to school with him. The mother came to pick the boy up right away when he complained of pain, rushed him to the hospital when he lost consciousness, and she is now speaking out to warn others about the dangers of this stupid challenge.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

True. Back when I rented it was a good situation because my rent was dirt cheap and I was able to save money. Seems those days are long gone with rentals sometimes being double or triple what a mortgage payment would be.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Renting isn't the greatest decision, either. You're throwing money at a landlord and gaining zero equity. People often do it because it's that or homelessness. These systems are in place to take advantage of people who aren't the best decision makers. Just because they can be taken advantage of... should they be? Or should we be better than this and revamp how we house people so that it isn't a massive scam with the opportunity for extra side scams like we see here?

If the landlord wasn't a massive dick, they both could have benefited from this situation. She'd have the renovated bathroom she wanted, and the landlord knew his property was being taken care of without even needing to lift a finger. Instead he got greedy, and rather than blame the greedy jerk people want to jump on the "stupid" victim. Except it's not her fault her landlord was a prick.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

I'm not arguing this point. Even though I disagree with how she chose to spend her money, I can still acknowledge that it's not her fault the landlord took advantage of her and kicked her out to charge higher rent to the next person.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Except shaming obesity doesn't solve that problem, either. You're kind of proving my point here without even realizing it.

[–] [email protected] -4 points 2 years ago

A proper comparison here would be more like a leased vehicle than a rental car. It's not the "stupidest thing ever" for this tenant to believe she would be living there for 1 or more years and wouldn't suddenly be evicted. Your exaggeration only benefits predators, and your pity is hardly a reward to anyone.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 years ago (17 children)

Everyone is so busy insulting the tenant doing the upgrades when it's the landlord who behaved badly. If all we do is collectively blame victims when they get taken advantage of, society will crumble. This woman wasn't stupid, she just didn't have her guard up in preparation for the massive asshole who had power over her. There's a difference.

When you are trusting, you're called stupid. When you trust no one, you're called unreasonably cynical. They're two sides of the same victim blaming coin. Start blaming the actual problem: predators.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago

I do actually. Please tell.

[–] [email protected] 105 points 2 years ago (21 children)

The praise he received after 9/11 was how I first heard his name. Shining example of "You either die a hero, or live long enough to see yourself become the villain."

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago

Exactly. And since a medical doctor is the one who is qualified to determine what would risk a pregnant woman's life, none of us could possibly have a say in the matter because we're not qualified to do so.

I'm very happy to be able to find some common ground with a conservative on this fine day. I also do not listen to Justin Bieber songs. Let's keep searching for more common ground and unite our feuding peoples. We can do this!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (3 children)

medical necessity

Ah, so then you understand that by definition, only medical doctors are able to decide what is and isn't a medical necessity, and therefore how unreasonable it is that anyone else besides doctor and patient would think they should have a say in the matter? Great, glad we got that settled!

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