exasperation

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

I told the magic mirror a thousand times, I never wanted to meet a girl in person! I just wanted a corpse. You can't disappoint a corpse! I hate you magic mirror!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago

The true key is…counterintuitive as this sounds, not looking.

I agree with your overall comment but would also expand on this point. It's ok to be looking (and open about that fact) but you're right that looking for a romantic/sexual relationship is a lot easier when it's combined with looking for other things at the same time, like the other things you're talking about: people to share conversations with, to share hobbies with, to do things with, to learn from, to accomplish things with. Because after all, even if you do find someone to be a romantic partner, you'll want all those other things as part of it, too.

Most people who share your interests or want to do things with you won't be potential partners. I'm a straight cis guy with a lot of stereotypical straight guy interests, which means that the majority of people I meet through my hobbies are other straight guys, and none of us want to date each other. Even most of the women aren't in the dating pool (age, relationship status, other factors).

Being social creates opportunities to meet partners. For people who are able to do that, being social is the easiest way to create the environment where potential partners want to talk to you and want to explore compatibility with you.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Counterpoint: showing the sex and the puking in graphic detail in Team America were both important parts of the movie.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago (3 children)

Which room though?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

Yeah, I understand the article to be saying that the Hitachi contract is for the train control system, including the software and equipment necessary for the operation of the train underground. The broader system upgrades include communications systems between trains and stations. At least how I read it.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 10 months ago (2 children)

No, the $212 million includes the entire upgrade (and 20 years of support) of the automatic train control system. The full $700 million plus is for the overall modernization of multiple systems.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 10 months ago

Yeah I wash my vegetables for grit. I don't even care that much about bugs, but even the slightest amount of grit is terrible.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 10 months ago

pulled right from the fuckin court documents

The "court documents" are filings by the parties. You're summarizing litigation documents filed by Twitter, in a motion to dismiss, which is a phase of litigation before either side comes forward with any evidence.

The court hasn't ruled on anything, so you're just repeating statements that one side has claimed. I'm pointing out that the other side is claiming the opposite.

The suing company isn't going off anything but fucking assumptions.

They're not required to come forward with evidence (and litigation procedure doesn't even give them much of an opportunity to come forward with evidence at this stage). What they have come forward with is literally sealed by the court, so unless you're leaking confidential court documents you don't have any idea of what they're claiming. Take a look at the docket.

If you're going to be aggressive in this comment section, at least learn the very basics of the thing you're being aggressive about. It's clear you don't know the basics of this type of litigation, so it might help if you show some intellectual humility, take a step back, and let the knowledgeable people actually weigh in, to be able to evaluate the publicly filed documents in an informed way. Whatever it is you're doing instead, looks pretty bad.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 10 months ago (2 children)

There was no purchasing contract in place when the suing company placed the $20 million dollar order they are claiming is all custom made and cant be recouped, "the social media platform had not made any firm purchase order when the server dealer went ahead with its purchases and deliveries."

You're leaving out that the paragraph you're summarizing starts off with "X claims that."

One side says there was a contract. The other side says it wasn't firmed up yet into a binding contract. Neither side has come forward with their evidence.

Also, Wiwynn is also suing for negligent misrepresentation and promissory estoppel, which don't require a contract.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 10 months ago (2 children)

recipes are basically an engineering text

I would love to see more systematic recipe formats.

Around 15-20 years ago there was a website called "Cooking for Engineers" that used a table format for recipes that was pretty clever, and a very useful diagram for how to visualize the steps (at least for someone like me). I don't think he ever updated the site to be mobile friendly but you can see it here:

Cheesecake
Dirty Rice

He describes the recipe in a descriptive way, but down at the bottom it lists ingredients and how they go together in a chart that shows what amounts to use, what ingredients go into a particular step, what that step is, and how the product of that step feeds into the next step.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

You're thinking of indigo.

Red

Orange

Yellow

Green

Blue

Violet

That's 6.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago

Depends on the topic. From what I can tell, Lemmy skews young and technical and towards certain personalities and interests, so there are going to be topics that go to those strengths, but also topics where the discussions get mired down in either discussing the basics or get stuck in a pretty unsophisticated understanding of the topic.

It's obvious with the hyper local discussions (where should I eat in this city when I visit), because there just aren't enough knowledgeable people to form a quorum for quality discussion. But it's also true in many of the hobby/interest discussions, simply because there aren't enough people to where good discussion encourages more high quality discussion in a feedback loop.

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