Pretty sure it’s iOS 3 or earlier
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“Got to learn how to do this sober” is exactly what I settled on too. And really, it seemed like the flight went quicker not being hyper aware of hunting down the flight attendants for another round.
The hardest part was my solo dinner ponied up to a bar, but NA Guinness has been working well. Thanks for the story!
Posting here is a big deal, and likely your first step to real change. Keep checking in. I have found what works best for me is saying that I've retired from drinking. It truly was a second job (sometimes first..) and now I'm retired. Been there, done that.
Your wife is on her own journey coping with this and will likely not recognize your progress as quickly as you'd like. Give her grace. Give yourself grace. We're all rooting for you!
In the past, happiness across the adult lifespan took on a “U-shaped” curve. Young adults were among the most content with their lives, happiness dipped in middle age and then rose again among older adults. In recent years, this decades-old curve has shifted into a straight, upward line. Older adults remain happy, and middle age remains middling, but young adults are now less happy than either group.
Yeah, we know why. Decades of reduced social investment at the behest of a incredibly large and selfish cohort that is remaining in power far longer than any generation before them.
Thanks for posting. I’m now at 108 days. I can confirm that drinking “responsibly” was far more work than not drinking at all. I started journaling my random thoughts about drinking (which still happen) and still refer back to entries I made in the first few weeks. They remind me where I was and why I don’t want to go back to square one. IWNDWYTT!
Good summary. Happy to see the majority of the council represent their constituents over capital.